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As much as I want to have a wank meet in person, I have pretty much giving up hope of having it happen. I've been trying for years to set up meets with various different people but they have never actually happened for one reason or another. But recently I have also found increasingly difficult to find wank buddies online. Omegle is just full of timewasters and even when I post on here saying I have an entire day to wank online on snapchat, discord etc I get no responses or messages.

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jackinbud1969 Amateur Jackinchatter

282 posts since 2013-07-10
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Yea I am having the same problem, either they flake on me or neither one of us have a place to do it.
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659 posts since 2012-11-01
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I have no idea why online is so difficult right now. People just seem to spunk and run
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dcl2011 said:
I have no idea why online is so difficult right now. People just seem to spunk and run
agree - more difficult than ever at the moment!
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Str8Male74 Amateur Jackinchatter

406 posts since 2005-08-16
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I think there are many men who have really specific interests. There was a conversation on Discord where guys in person are just looking for jo but the men they meet are looking for more than just stroking to porn together. It has become increasingly more difficult online. It depends on the time and day of the week. A whole cross-section of men still work from home but are signed into Discord to also chat. I prefer making a friend where if we are both interested can stroke and roleplay together. Webcam and mic I am uneasy about but it was the right person and talked long enough and really got to know each other I might be open to the idea.
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796 posts since 2013-04-02
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Luv a regular bud just need time when both can mic and cam
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248 posts since 2021-02-01
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Many people have short memories. There was a pandemic completely paralysed many countries and changed so many things then and for many people today too. A lot lot of guys either worked away more or had wives and family working outside of the home.
Now many guys have their wives and even other members of their family also, either working more or even full time working from home. This makes it hard for many to dedicate free time for fun to even have and fixed time to have fun online therefore meeting become harder to arrange as they don't have the same freedom to move around as before
I have many online friends who now turn up at many different times, simply because they cannot plan their online time in advance. Even I have that problem because my work patterns are so different now and I have had to adapt to a new way of working.
I do agree that there will always be some guys who will simply drop out. That never changes. But many are simply caught in a difficult situation and as frustrating as it is.. and I can be as guilty at time too, we just have to try and find ways to work around it. I know that is not a solution and to be honestly don't think there is one at present. Simply don't five up as we are all working on finding ways to adapt. Hopefully we will work it out
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CaptainKremmen said:
Many people have short memories. There was a pandemic completely paralysed many countries and changed so many things then and for many people today too. A lot lot of guys either worked away more or had wives and family working outside of the home.
Now many guys have their wives and even other members of their family also, either working more or even full time working from home. This makes it hard for many to dedicate free time for fun to even have and fixed time to have fun online therefore meeting become harder to arrange as they don't have the same freedom to move around as before
I have many online friends who now turn up at many different times, simply because they cannot plan their online time in advance. Even I have that problem because my work patterns are so different now and I have had to adapt to a new way of working.
I do agree that there will always be some guys who will simply drop out. That never changes. But many are simply caught in a difficult situation and as frustrating as it is.. and I can be as guilty at time too, we just have to try and find ways to work around it. I know that is not a solution and to be honestly don't think there is one at present. Simply don't five up as we are all working on finding ways to adapt. Hopefully we will work it out

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I struggle to find many decent/interesting/intelligent people to chat and message with,let alone starting on bloody wank meets!
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19 posts since 2023-01-03
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I have found a few on the free site camroomlist dot com. They have all these themed cam rooms and guys hang out and chat and wank - its awesome! I like the Wife-Sharing and the Emily-Monks room but the Feet Fetish room is good too. Give it a try!
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37 posts since 2016-08-16
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Love to chat about wife family etc. no limits. Send me your telegram or wickr.
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Str8Male74 said:
...I prefer making a friend where if we are both interested can stroke and roleplay together...


This is absolutely the best advice for this sort of thing. grin

If you never hook up IRL, guess what? You still have a friend to chat and roleplay with.
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261 posts since 2019-09-21
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True, and for me, its hard to find a fit str8 bud who just wants to jo together. They chat and want more. But I am new to this meet up etc...I EDGE DAILY AND FOR HOURS,,,it would be cool to find a cool jo bud
Any other guys into edging for hours? Would be cool to chat. Many thoughts that go with my many hours of edging South Carolina
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1356 posts since 2012-06-23
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I gave up trying to meet someone most are just flaked and time wasters even before the pandemic

I think most are turned on at the thought of meeting up but get cold feet

If I want to get jerked off or jerk a cock I got a Korean spa I go to and everytime get jerked off in the steam room
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The good ol' days are over, but hopefully something new will come along.
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