So how many of us guys here are struggling to get our dicks hard?

I've noticed recently that my erections are not getting as firm as they used to. I've noticed that even when I'm pumped, I'm only semi stiff, and it takes me longer to get harder anymore. Also I haven't been waking up with morning wood. I'm only 45 right now, dealing with HBP, and diabetes.Lost a lot of weight though.

Anyone else here in the limp noodle club?

I think as we get older we should appreciate quality over quantity... 54 here, in decent shape but dealing with hereditary HBP, my cock doesn't get stiff when the breeze blows any more like it used to, but given good stimuli I'm still rock hard. Being married 30-some years, well, on the (very) rare times I'm getting laid, it takes some concentration to maintain a high level of performance. However you want to interpret that, go ahead. For me it's definitely mental. I get it, for some guys it's physical. But the wonders of modern medical chemistry should not be ignored.

I am 59 and I my dick doesn't want to cooperate quite like it once did. I didn't really mind when I jack-off as it gets hard enough to get'r done, but fucking the wife was getting harder (if you excuse the pun). My Doc gave me a Rx for the generic blue pill for which I now cut into 4... 25mgs seems to be just enough to get the little soldier to stand at attention.

I'm 58 and turn to generic cialis whenever I'm lucky to get some at home. At first, drove myself crazy thinking something was wrong with me. Other than age, I'm fine, and happy to live at a time when there are drugs to help give me a stiff one when I want it.

This is a really good topic. I use a generic kind of Viagra, about two hours before I start playing with myself. It's pretty good. .

Its quite common in older age.20mg Ciallis works wonders for me lasts about 2to3 days too.

Love the term "limp noodle club." Age along with psychological things in the background are usual reasons, but as the OP is 45 might seem young. Losing weight will become a benefit though as he'll be able to see what he's doing which is a turn-on. Also if a mind-set thing could possibly evaporate.

I suppose I'm lucky that it took me until my 70s before I began to find it a struggle, except for morning wood. Perhaps a bit of anal play will hit a button? Someone suggested a cock-ring and I thoroughly recommend it.

I've just turned 40 and mine certainly doesnt get hard quite as easily as it used to. Morning wood rarely happens any more. Don;t have a problem staying hard during sex, but that's mainly as these days i rarely last more than a minute, sometimes a lot less, thats a whole other issue.

I've also noticed that i used to be able to go a second time after 5-10 mins, now i cant get it up a second time or muster enough energy for round 2. Years ago i remember going a second third sometimes 4th time, then again after waking up. Those days are long gone!!

Diet and lifestyle are clearly the biggest factors. at play here!

Its shocking the amount of drugs (especially in the US) people get given by doctors so manage problems instead of telling them to stop drinking, eat better, move more.

i use a cock ring to keep the blood in my cock.it really keeps me hard.

I had ED before taking my health seriously. Taking viagra gave me a headache, so I hated taking it. Didn't get me as rock hard as I'd hoped either.

So I got on a diet, started working out regularly, dropped 45lbs, got off diabetes meds, got off HBP meds, and got off cholesterol meds.

I feel better, look better, and get hard as a rock. I even get random boners like I did in my younger days.

Happened in my 50s. Viagra and Cialis worked great for a few years then didn't. Just got a headache. Doctor prescribed Bi Mix injections. Yes you have to inject it into your cock but you will get a rock hard cock for an hour and you can hold off on coming longer too. Does it hurt yes but you will have fantastic sex after. It's probably what porn stars use. How else can you explain those guys being rock hard so long.

I'm thinking about digging my bathmate hydropump out of storage in the garage and pumping up again.

Also heard about some other things I'd be willing to try.

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you got that 100% right! nobody is saying you have to be on the cover of a fitness magazine, but drinking in moderation, not eating absolute garbage all the time, and cardio exercise a few times a week really does work.

47 here taking medication heart issue still work out eat clean and do not treat my body like garbage and still get rock hard and blow huge loads

23 years married and still pound out sex like we did when we first met