JackinChat forums are temporarily in read-only mode. Will be back soon!
Message Boards
Index » Masturbation » For Him » Stroking with someone else is not all it's cracked up to be
Page: of 2   next > 
Unregistered ?



Unregistered's Avatar
And that's okay. I tried it and I didn't enjoy it. Had a real hard time getting it hard since I wasn't getting into it. Before, I stroked to the idea of "bonding" with someone else, but putting those thoughts into action is a whole different beast. If you have felt similarly, I guess know that you're not alone.
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline
Unregistered ?



Unregistered's Avatar
avidstr0ker said:
And that's okay. I tried it and I didn't enjoy it. Had a real hard time getting it hard since I wasn't getting into it. Before, I stroked to the idea of "bonding" with someone else, but putting those thoughts into action is a whole different beast. If you have felt similarly, I guess know that you're not alone.


Well that was a quick de registration
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline
sepafun Skilled Jackinchatter

941 posts since 2013-10-10
64 year old curious male from Gilbertsville, PA
sepafun's Avatar
MatureCum77 said:
Well that was a quick de registration


Unfortunate.

I would have been interested to find out why it didn't work for him. I have had a great time with every other guy I have stroked with, whether we just stroked ourselves of did a mutual jack.
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
facepainter69 Novice Jackinchatter

22 posts since 2021-09-07
49 year old heterosexual male from Northshore Massachusetts / Seacoast NH
facepainter69's Avatar
Yeah, I'd like to hear more about what wasn't good, as someone who wants to find a bud to bate with irl myself
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Doug55 Skilled Jackinchatter

647 posts since 2017-05-22
59 year old homosexual male
Doug55's Avatar
Me too I always had a hot time masturbating with another
male partner the time we pull each other out and examine
each others penis's to the stroke and then going down on
each others manhood till the warm ooze of sperm enters your
mouthstroke
I am your bottom
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
seacoastfun4u Amateur Jackinchatter

103 posts since 2014-01-26
54 year old bisexual male from Seacoast NH
seacoastfun4u's Avatar
Hmmmm...the only thing I can think of is his reference to imagining it as "bonding" before he tried it. For me it's about just watching it happen with no stress.
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
WankerJim Amateur Jackinchatter

340 posts since 2020-02-24
81 year old bisexual male from West Sussex
WankerJim's Avatar
Spontaneous is the way to do it. Just go for it and relax into it. See where it takes you. Who knows?
Wank, chat, wank, chat etc still fuckin'
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Lovecock Amateur Jackinchatter

387 posts since 2023-03-13
47 year old homosexual male from Philadelphia PA
Lovecock's Avatar
He probably struggled with his sexuality and holds on to his heterosexual label. Oh well, I guess we will never know
Str8 guys who suck cock are not straight
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
allnaturalnnc Amateur Jackinchatter

261 posts since 2019-09-21
52 year old heterosexual male from South Carolina USA
allnaturalnnc's Avatar
True, just the thought is wild,,, maybe taboo and thats why we get hard thinking about it, not doing it?
Any other guys into edging for hours? Would be cool to chat. Many thoughts that go with my many hours of edging South Carolina
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
allnaturalnnc Amateur Jackinchatter

261 posts since 2019-09-21
52 year old heterosexual male from South Carolina USA
allnaturalnnc's Avatar
similar situation, I do wonder about trying it --jo with another bud
Any other guys into edging for hours? Would be cool to chat. Many thoughts that go with my many hours of edging South Carolina
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Unregistered ?



Unregistered's Avatar
Jo with another bud is so Damm exiting
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline
Lovecock Amateur Jackinchatter

387 posts since 2023-03-13
47 year old homosexual male from Philadelphia PA
Lovecock's Avatar
allnaturalnnc said:
True, just the thought is wild,,, maybe taboo and thats why we get hard thinking about it, not doing it?


Maybe a long time ago it was considered taboo for guys being together but today it is not taboo at all. It is quite common and acceptable
Str8 guys who suck cock are not straight
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Sabonis7 Professional Jackinchatter

1584 posts since 2020-04-05
male from US
Sabonis7's Avatar
Based purely on anecdotal evidence in here, it's either easy to set up and fantastic, or impossible to set up and disappointing the few times it actually happens.

There seems to be no middle ground.
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Chumwithrum Enlightened Jackinchatter

4360 posts since 2017-06-14
46 year old curious male
Chumwithrum's Avatar
Lovecock said:
Maybe a long time ago it was considered taboo for guys being together but today it is not taboo at all. It is quite common and acceptable


That may depend on an age demographic, but for the majority it is still quite taboo and definitely not acceptable to wives.
...Ran into a Chum with a bottle of rum...
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Mastieman Amateur Jackinchatter

137 posts since 2015-08-27
52 year old heterosexual male from New Zealand
Mastieman's Avatar
The whole bonding thing simply doesn't happen on the first meet.
I've got a couple of regular jerk buddies that I've known for years. We have a great time, but the first few times you are naked with another guy, is always going to be somewhat uncomfortable.

The thought of it is terribly exciting, but upon meeting, it can take some time to be comfortable with each other.

Anyway, that's just my 2 cents worth. Go away now!
Add a reply Quote this post
User is offline Send Message to User View User Profile
Page: of 2   next > 
Index » Masturbation » For Him » Stroking with someone else is not all it's cracked up to be