My wife did not know until about 20/25 years ago when she caught me JO to porn. She was pissed and took about a week to get over it. She caught me about 12 times and now is comfortable with the situation. She knows I will probably be JO whenever I get the chance. How about you guys, has your wife discovered your masturbation yet and if she has , how is she dealing with it ?

Nope! Been doing it on the side for 25 years. Love it!

Hell yes! She loves to watch!

She is well aware, and has watched, joined in, taken over, climbed on, smiled and left me to finish, etc.

Nope although has come close to catching me. Wish she did but know she would go mad!

Don't be silly.wives have no idea how much husbands masturbate.mine doesn't and if there are any wives on this site,they should know now.

Mine has NO idea and would kill me if she knew! She doesn't masturbate and hates porn.

Yeah of course she does, she's caught me often enough

Most of my partners knew that I liked to masturbate. They were generally okay with it. One of them once said to me "I get the feeling that that happens often" to which I said "yes". It was cool. She would tell me when she masturbated from time to time. A fun memory.

Luckily yes. I masturbated in front of her on our very first "date" - we had sex, then I pulled out as not to get her pregnant.. what's a guy to do when he pulls out at the last minute.
I shot up on to her chest, tummy and pussy. And she's been watching be do that ever since.

Nice!

My wife asked when we were dating if I jacked off and I said yes. Then wanted to know how often and I told her a lot. Soon after that she asked if I would jack off for her and I said I would if I could watch her get herself off at the same time and she agreed. It has become a part of our lovemaking ever since. We will face each naked and reclining back a bit so we have the best views of each other. I always shoot my cum all over us and she licks it all up and will give me a huge cum filled kiss when she has finished. I consider myself very lucky!

That's nice. Sex is a rich tapestry and wanking together is one great alternative to the fuck.

This is one of the things I do with the gf too. I love it when we both just sit around, both of us getting off. She's addicted to a small bullet vibrator and has no inhibitions about getting naked and using it impromptu in front of me while I stroke my cock for her and watch her cum.

The variation of this is that we lie side by side. I'm wanking my cock with one hand and fingering her cunt or using that vibrator on her with the other hand. She is holding the phone and we're watching old man younger girl porn, her favourite genre, or maybe she's scrolling through the porn I make with her. She holds up my fave pic of her for me to cum to while she watches.

My fantasy is that I have a mate or two round and we all end up watching porn and sitting round wanking together like jack buddies, her wanking herself off too, sat with us naked and squirting for us as we shoot for her.

The great thing for me is that she knows this and all the dirty fantasies I have about her. Her knowing I have fantasies about her fucking with mates of mine and knowing that I wank off to those fantasies makes it hotter for me. I don't have secrets from her. She knows all my fantasies and that I wank over them and she calls me maggot brain.

My wife was a prolific masturbator before we met. So was I, of course. We talked about it often. We masturbated together most of our married life and still do occasionally. She is fine with it, but wants to feel included and not excluded.

She is ok with it what was hard for her to
get over is when she walked in on me sucking a guys cock