Same here, while the cats away..

if you think she doesn't know, you're delusional. They ALL know, because we ALL do it. Agreed possibly they don't know how much or what we get off to...

Thankfully it's never been too much of an issue... from the earliest days (pre-internet) I met my wife, she was fully aware I had a stash of skin mags and VHS tapes. We spent a considerable amount of time apart even after we were engaged and had many nights on the phone getting off with each other, talking about what we did the last time we were together and what we were going to do the next time we met... LOL She always loved to watch me stroke out a load of cum after getting her off with my mouth and fucking her til she had enough... encouraging me to cum on her pussy, belly, tits, face, mouth, so in that regard I cannot complain.

She does and helps me with it sometimes.

Mine found out when she caught me humping a pillow w her panties on it. She was mad at first but let me finish.
I still have those panties and cum on them a lot.

My ex knew and was fine with it. But then again, she worked days and I worked nights. She also used a vibrator when home alone.

It's like I told my wife when we were first married...

90% of all guys masturbate regularly and the other 10% are liars. So deal with it.

We have not had sex in a while so I JO the other day when my wife was out. I suspect she thought I JO then. She is going out soon and I plan on JO while she is gone. Again she will probably think I jerked off but will not say anything.

My current gf really disapproves of wanking, she gets really weird about it. It's absolutely infuriating. My ex actively encouraged it, she would message from work asking if I was wanking and loved to watch me

Same here, no sex for nearly 20 years. She knows I love a good wank and doesn't have a problem. The other day I was complaining of a muscle ache in my right hand, she said "probably too much wanking". I reminded her I'm left handed, then I told her the last wank I had was when she went to the hairdressers, and she told me that must have been nearly 2 weeks ago.

The other day something came up about prostate cancer, and she said I need to be aware. I explained that when I wank I look at the small amount of spunk to make sure no blood. I even explained I don't put a tissue over the end of my cock, but let it cum so I can check it over. Just in case a bit of blood from my veiny cock gets picked up by a tissue and I think the worst. What I didn't tell her though is I just like to see my own spunk. Nor did I tell her the bulging veins are due to a cock-ring.

Yep, she went out and I JO . I was outside when she left and I was outside when she came home. She probably does not think I JO while she was gone. That is good, she will not think I am a sex maniac if i suggest sex tomorrow.

Yeah she knows, we frequently do it together it's fun Also she likes to watch me. As long as I'm "ready for action" when she is she is quite happy. We spent the first year we were together in different countries so used to jack off whilst sending her dirty messages on IRC for those that remember that

Not at all
If she catches me Im in a chastity cage for a certain amount of time
Ive been csught like 7 times in the past 5 months

My wife and I have not had sex in almost a month and she knows i can not go that long without JO. She has seen me always looking at my phone and watching hot girls at a recent wedding. I am wondering what she will say when I suggest we have sex. Will she say have you not satisfied yourself JO all this time looking at porn and hot girls at the wedding or will she not mention my jerking off. She enjoys our sex because I make her cum multiple times with a vibrating egg. I am she does not masturbate so she should be ready for sex

I guess my marriage must be amazing because in it masturbation is unmentionable. My wife is extremely uncomfortable around the topic - even the word - and therein lies a host of issues.

She knows I'm always horny and have a high sex drive, so she has to figure I masturbate somehow. But in no way could she imagine that "somehow" is having my cam connected, porn on, pants down, and hard cock lubed before her car even leaves the driveway.

I'd have no problem if she found out any of it - what a total chronic masturbator I am, what kind of porn truly turns me on, or how much I love to edge for hours before shooting ropes of cum all over the desk. Maybe someday she might, but I see no point - she certainly wouldn't like it and I certainly love being a masturbator. So it's kind of a "Don't ask, don't tell."