Good Morning My Fellow Boner Whackers,

I have a serious inquiry for all you heterosexual married/attached dong strokers. I keep reading posts about your ladies being completely repulsed or dismayed at the concept of them knowing you like to wax the dolphin. My inquiry would be why? And that question is especially curious when I read that quite often women lost interest in sexual interaction. So if they no longer want to indulge in playful pleasure, why do they care if you have some self-stimulation? Would they rather you go out and start paying hookers...er ladies of the evenings for satisfaction? Do they expect that since theyre not sexual you shouldnt be either? Im just wondering. Any insight would be well received.

My late wife had me wank for her why we sat in our patio and gave me a pair of nylon ankle high stockinmgs to J/O with when visiting relatives out of town and brought them home for her to inspect and wash.

What? Nobody has any insight to a simple question ?

Because women are generally selfish and evil. If they don't want it, then you shouldn't either!

I have asked my therapist. She did not have good reasons why I should not be jerking off even if my wife is not allowing me to.

Jesus, who hurt you?!

Just saying, you know it's true

My wife stopped sex over 12 years ago,probably menopause etc,but she still wanks me off.I suppose it's a bit like male chastity where the wife keeps the husband locked up but he still enjoys pleasuring his wife because he loves her.

maybe for some women marriage and relationship's are not just about sex and they want something deeper than just being used as a fucktoy and they feel by men wanking they are just in it for the sex and nothing else especially if their partners use porn then they feel you are no longer attracted to them

i wank often and to porn but still want to have sex with her as often as i can to be fair to her while she was pregnant she used to give me regualr hand jobs when she was not up for it. if our sex life died i would broach the subject and if she was not happy to wank me i would ask if i could do it myelsf if she was not happy about it i would do as i do now and be discreet

Perhaps some women feel a man jacking off is taking away from their lovemaking. I have never had that problem. My wife loves watching me jack off.

I think a lot of women feel that way. That cannot understand that we can do both. Guess it is alright that they get multiples and we cannot blow our loads.

My wife has no clue of my sexual needs that have been with me since early childhood when I realized when I was in second grade that when I lay on my belly in bed and move side to side on the sheets it made my little cock feel really great and, if I did it long enough, it felt even more wonderful for several seconds. Not long after, I moved up to simply masturbating. It was something that I could not stop doing....it felt so good. Even now in my eighties, though I can't get off by simple masturbation anymore, I still crave the sexual release that an orgasm provides and look for other ways to achieve the same thrill. My wife would never understand that "it's a 'guy' thing" and necessary for sanity's sake. By the way, it grew to a handful at 8 1/2" inches hard. It even allowed me to self suck for a few years.

Just talked to my wife about this yesterday. I asked her if she minded if i JO she said no unless youre paying for it, I think she means cam models = cheating.

She knows I will watch porn and she said why would I be jealous of your hand? Which is actually a really good answer. I do think if JO gets in the way of having sex why would be having a whole different conversation. When the urge strikes it strikes.

My wife thinks porn has ruined me as in I need more kinker ways to get off. I love her in lingerie and she just likes to be nude. There are other things I wanted to try like pegging which she was not into. She just thinks I can't have regular sex.

I think it's a broad generalization of wives feeling this way. My wife knows I jerk off and has seen me jerk off. Both of us masturbate when horny and its okay. I would guess that wives who are repulsed are having a knee jerk reaction over fear of not being desired anymore DESPITE the fact they they aren't interested in sex as much anymore. Crazy; but the female mind works differently. Just my thought.