My wife isnt interested in any form of fun I guess that is the outcome of the menopause I very very occasionally get to wank off over her tits as there is plenty to aim at but all the planets have to be in a line for this to happen so a massive turn on to have mutual wanking with another guy Have no idea what she would say or do about it

What is your question?

Wanked all my married life, you need no excuse just enjoy your cock. I still get the wifes knees up now and again, but I love a secret wank on skype with another horny old man.

Not married or in a relationship with a woman but I know several men who are and they report the same kind of thing.

It's not all women of course, there are plenty who are very open and respectful of their male partners and don't impose and make demands, but there is definitely a cultural problem with regard to male sexuality in the minds of a lot of women.

Does no one find it bizarre how women are considered "empowered" for going to strip shows and attending sex toy parties, but men are "perverts" if we dare to want the same things?

I've met married guys who can't keep a stroker toy at home because their wife would freak out, all the while she's got two or three vibrators in her bedside drawer.

Look at the examples of it in modern culture. Ellen Degeneres was bringing out a shirtless hunk every week and the female audience would go crazy, but imagine if Doctor Phil (not a doctor lol) brought out a bikini-clad woman for the male audience to holler at.

We all know how that would go, right?

It's no wonder so many married men look for masturbation buddies and never tell their wives, so many women act like the Taliban with their hypocrisy and misandry. They seem to think their man's cock is their property.

I do not know why wives feel that way. My wife was pissed the first time she caught me JO about 30 years ago but now accepts the fact that I JO when ever I get the chance. I get great BJs and HJs from her but I would love it if she encouraged me to JO in her presence and tease me into cumming.

Totally agree especially the last part.

Yeah it would be nice. The closest was when my wife got tired giving me a HJ and I had to finish the job. Put she was not watching because she was kissing me and did not see me cum. At least she was there while I was jerking my cock.