I wouldnt say my wife encourages me to JO. Sure she knows I do, as I make sure if she leaves one of her bras in the bathroom I make it obvious that its not how she left it. Also I leave my fleshlight in the bathroom and also make sure itss in a different position when put back. She says leave my bras alone but has given me one of her old ones just for the occasion.

Years ago I went on TRT for a short while and wife couldnt handle me. She pretty much knew I had to JO or she would get way more attention from me that she could handle. All though maybe if she was more of a slut she could have handled it, thats another post though.

There has been a few times when she would tell me to just go take care of it myself, there were times when she would watch and or help. Times when she would leave the house and she knew what I was going to do. Has even said maybe thats what you need some alone time. I rarely have quick JO sessions anymore and like to spend hours of edging. Since I dont get that kinda of time very often to almost never I dont wank as much as I would like.

I think as long as Im ready for the wife when she wants sex, she doesnt mind as much.

She has never asked to watch me use the fleshlight or send at all curious about it. She just called me a perv and asks why I need that when I have her? Same reason she has a toy, although I bought it for her and she was kinda against it, but she uses it,, both with me and alone as I occasionally check to see if its in the same position as it was before. So she jills off on occasion and keeps it a secret sometimes. Once in a great while she tell me she jilled off. Havent noticed her using her toy in awhile though. Whos to say she just not using her hands though. I think its hot that she will or has jilled off.

I think its a healthy part of a relationship as long as it doesnt get in the way of actual sex in your relationship.

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I just asked my wife if she would be in the mood for some sex. She basically said maybe if she feels better later. She did not encourage me to JO i wish she did. So I will wait and see if I get a great BJ or try to sneak in a jerk off session for myself. I do not tell her if I JO.

My last wifewould ask me to jerk off for her once in a while when we sat outdoors in view of neighbors homes on either side of ours

Well my wife agreed to have sex and we both had a great time.

I am pretty sure my wife knows I am jacking off. We were very open in the beginning of our relationship. Now that she does not really want sex as much I don't think she realizes how often I jack off. She is not very spontaneous so I book sex about 6 hours in advance with her so that I don't jack off before then.

My wife and I are planning on having sex later today but there is a chance that plan will fall through.if that happens, I do not know if she will tell me to take care of it myself or give me a HJ. Hopefully it will be sex which will be a BJ for me. In any case I will cum today.

She still sends me pictures of celebrities I might like
Its so horny

I got a great BJ.

when im away she sends me slutty selfies to get off to, and always poses when i ask