So I'm a pretty fit guy coming up to 49 soon, errections still pretty good mostly but take cialis as sometimes a little soft on the way in and my wife is astonishingly tight so can be difficult to get in there initially! (benefit of having had to have emergency caesarean probably, nothing slackened) Very sexually active and always been able to last a long time but recently struggling to cum, was nearly 3 hours of fucking on Sunday before I shot my load. Anyone had similar issues, side effect of the cialis perhaps, maybe should stop for a bit or is this just an age thing?

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perhaps you are masturbating too much and watching too much porn that sexualises and fantasizes women Reality is no mastch Time for some fun play time with the wife

I am 56 and have similar issues. I am also a Cialis user. I get a good strong erection, but takes me an age to cum. Rarely cum through oral or penetrative sex these days, as wife is usually well satisfied and pretty exhausted long before I am ready to ejaculate. She tends to finish me off by hand. Im assuming its just an age thing.

I also take Cialis had sex Friday night no problems, then again on Saturday. Well Saturday it seemed like I fucked the wife for an hour straight and didnt think I was going to be able to finish. I was able to finish but it became work at that point.

I dont think the Cialis had anything to do with it other than get me hard and make me think I was horny enough for sex. Just because im hard doesnt necessarily mean Im horny. I know viagra would make my cock feel swollen and puffy and loss sensitivity thats one reason i changed to Cialis.

That's a good point, had so much recently that perhaps it's just too much

My wife literally thinks sex should last 10 minutes, but i always go over 30 and would probably many more like most of you prefer if she was into it more. Im like hun im not 20 years old, either stroke n play with me before we start or get ready for a long-ride or unfinished business. Wife is reasonably tight but not as much as i can grip with my own hand. I do enjoy an edge session sooooo its a balance, age and all that together i think. Also, does anyone else find their cum in thicker as they age there when younger. I also have less pre cum

About 12 years or maybe longer ago made the mistake of taking 2 pills. After an hour of fucking my wife she jumped off the bed said she was to sore to continue. I was hard for around 3 hours before it went down. About 8 hours latter masturbated and finely nutted. I will never take 2 pills again

If your wife is willing have her give you a blowjob and when you're close tell her to start sucking as hard as she can.Only sucking.And don't try holding back.

I've always lasted a long time ever since my first fucks. I think I knowingly was trying to postpone cumming so that the girl i was fucking could get the most pleasure. It was always important to me that she had as much pleasure as I could give her, often at the expense of not cumming myself.

After she'd cum a few times, then I'd think of trying to let go. For a long time this worked ok because the gf who became the wife would save a cum to have at the same time as me. She knew I was working up to it, I'd tell her I was going over and she would cum herself which would take me over too. That's what did it. The extra muscle clenching and sucking sensation when she cummed around my cock.

This worked as I say, for a long time but at some stage I was finding it increasingly difficult to actually cum. Maybe it was from many years of holding it back, I don't know. You can't just cum to order. I started having to fuck, rest, fuck, rest, fuck rest for several minutes in between before I could finally have one big push, but I was finding that I would increasingly get too hot, run out of energy or my cock would start flagging. Sometimes I was so hot and sweating that it was unbearable.

Some time in my 40s it became an issue where anxiety would prevent it getting properly hard, knowing I'd probably not be able to cum anyway. The doc gave me cialis which worked for the hardness but did nothing for helping me cum sooner.

The wife started to get a bit bored with being pumped for a couple of hours at a time. She had no imagination despite being free with her cunt for anyone who wanted a go of her. She'd fuck and suck their cocks with enthusiasm but couldn't be bothered with me.

She more wanted the electrifying first time fuck and illicit sex with friends and one bloke in particular who was s real stud, than her husband. So she was boring to me too as all she did was lie there like a blow up doll and was aboutas animated. The funny thing is that she didn't really want to talk about 3sums and hot encounters with others either by then.

So it came to the time when I could hardly even get it up, let alone fuck and cum. Even cialis didn't work properly by then either.

I eventually didn't even ask her for sex anymore and she never mentioned the subject again.

I told her if she didn't want sex I'd find a girl who did because it wasn't fair that I should be celibate and never fuck a girl again.

Cutting a long story short, and after a number of celibate years of wanking when she wasnt around, then finding a gf, this girl is totally the opposite. Full of animation and imagination and very dynamic. I now had the opposite problem when I started with her. One of fear that I couldn't satisfy her because she was half my age and as hot as hell.

I still have to take cialis, which still doesn't work as well as I'd like, (being very tight she's really hard to get inside even with a good stiffy and I need to wank it really hard and use loads of lube), and I still last a long time but at least she enjoys being in charge and giving me a rest. Her fave position is cowgirl anyway, bouncing away almost oblivious to me underneath and just concentrating on the feeling in her cunt, she can also wank and suck a cock tirelessly for an hour without flagging.

The situation isn't helped because of a bit of an obsession we both have with videoing it and taking pictures during a session. That is erotic but at the same time creates delay which causes my cock to flag even with her tongue flicking the end.

I still don't find it easy to cum. Partly sweet shop syndrome probably. Often I can't cum at all. Even wanks over her pics are only about 20% likely to result in a cum. I just can't seem to get that extra bit of energy out to work it hard enough to get over the top. Sometimes I wish I could just knock it out at a lower level of arousal instead of the intense eye rolling almost passing out high that takes so much energy.

If she gets to see my cum it's like celebration time. She cheers and laughs when it shoots out

I learned recently that I have stress and anxiety. One of the ways this manifests is I tighten the muscles in my pelvis. It is called pelvic floor dysfunction. I get softer erections, can take longer to cum, can be difficult to stay hard. I ended up doing physical therapy which helped it a lot after a few weeks. You may want to watch some videos on how to stretch your pelvic floor. I would have never guessed that is what was happening to me.

That's a very good tip. Thank you.

Sounds to me that you're fucking your wife and she just doesn't do it for you any more.

Taking pills and age has nothing to do with it.

Either think of someone else while fucking or just have a wank for porn.

I volunteer as cameraman.

More seriously, have you tried toys, or ties, or really anything different, to step up the stimulation? I don't know if it would work but maybe try amping things up a bit - your girl sounds quite dominant - maybe have her tie you up and tease you with a vibrator or something like that?

I'm guessing - very grateful that at 55 I still get rock hard at the drop of a hat (bra, skirt, tit...) and cum hard easily - but mixing it up and playing to your girl's dominant streak might help?

If you are on medications for blood pressure or anxiety they can affect you being able to finish. I have had that problem in the past and my doctor finally changed my meds.

Interesting that you post about blood pressure medications maybe contributing to inability to ejaculate. I take bp meds and wonder if they are holding me back from ejaculation control.