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Often wondered how often married couples have sex. I'm 62 and, by agreement, my wife and I have sex every four weeks although often it slips and is longer. I would prefer it more frequently but she's not too bothered. If you're happy to share, please let us know how often and your age.
40; once every three months but getting more sparse. It's difficult, and often upsetting, but I understand the reasons behind it (body image, age, hormones) - I can't (and wouldn't) expect her to just Get On With It. That would be miserable for both of us.
But it is upsetting that, as much as people talk about sex being important in a marriage, as soon as one person doesn't want it we're expected to treat it as just another hobby we no longer have time for.
That said, we do have a wonderfully loving marriage, full of affection and physical contact. Just with a dead bedroom.
But it is upsetting that, as much as people talk about sex being important in a marriage, as soon as one person doesn't want it we're expected to treat it as just another hobby we no longer have time for.
That said, we do have a wonderfully loving marriage, full of affection and physical contact. Just with a dead bedroom.
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Not as often as I have sex with her sister!!!
not as often as I would like which would be a few times a day, so I enjoy her in my fantasies.
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originalbastard said:
40; once every three months but getting more sparse. It's difficult, and often upsetting, but I understand the reasons behind it (body image, age, hormones) - I can't (and wouldn't) expect her to just Get On With It. That would be miserable for both of us.
But it is upsetting that, as much as people talk about sex being important in a marriage, as soon as one person doesn't want it we're expected to treat it as just another hobby we no longer have time for.
That said, we do have a wonderfully loving marriage, full of affection and physical contact. Just with a dead bedroom.
40; once every three months but getting more sparse. It's difficult, and often upsetting, but I understand the reasons behind it (body image, age, hormones) - I can't (and wouldn't) expect her to just Get On With It. That would be miserable for both of us.
But it is upsetting that, as much as people talk about sex being important in a marriage, as soon as one person doesn't want it we're expected to treat it as just another hobby we no longer have time for.
That said, we do have a wonderfully loving marriage, full of affection and physical contact. Just with a dead bedroom.
I couldn't have said it better myself. I wish mine understood just how sexy i think she is. I've loved the comments i've gotten about her when i post her here for you guys.
It's been around 15 years ago. She lost interest and I lost interest in her. So now have sex with other married men that are in the same boat as me. Plus, the last few years because I am a diabetic, I have bad ED.
41 here, last had sex November of 2018. She either doesn't mind the gap or isn't telling me something. But sex has never been enjoyable for me, it's too physically and emotionally painful. I'm not minding the gap, I just hope it's not causing damage to our marriage.
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I am 81 and since I can not get it up, I get a BJ from my wife about 3 times a month.
Love to JO to porn
Sounds like there's a pattern of women generally losing interest as they get older but men still having sexual desires. Which is why a lot of us end up on here, I guess.
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42. Wife and I have sex 1-2 times a month. It's feast or famine . Some months it's a miracle if I get any. Sometimes, like this past Saturday and Monday, we have sex twice in a 3 day span.
About once per week these days. We are pretty happy with the frequency. I bate daily but only go to orgasm about twice a week. I prefer to hold on to being horny for several days - something wonderful about edging to a goon stage for hours that is so satisfying.
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Wives have sex? Almost a year for mine.
Every 10 years, so far.
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once a month if im lucky maybe 2 or 3 times a month
Been so long I can't remember the last time. Sad....
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