Never. Not for about 14 years.

She just lost interest, found it nothing more than a chore, and so therefore so did I. I didn't mention having sex again and neither has she. Now I really don't want it anyway.

She moaned a bit when I took a gf but I asked her if she expected me to remain celibate for the rest of my days and she said "well no".

She can't grumble anyway because she fucked her way through loads of men during our marriage and had a regular fuck buddy for some time too, so I'm only getting back some.

Sometimes she tells me that people in her work are after her for sex. In the toilets and such like. I tell her to get on with it but she always refuses.

Then sometimes she asks me about things like for example how do I fuck the gf? "How do you manage because your cock is big."

I answer appropriately and graphically.

fuck me,Superman!

Wow! You have a great wife.

I have told my wife she is free to fuck anyone she chooses but she promptly informed me that if I had sex with anyone but her she'd consider it cheating and divorce me.

I suppose you could say she's great yes in some ways. We say that a relationship based on mutual support shouldn't be affected just because I happen to have sex with a hot gf because she's not interested anymore.

It's not a nice trait of so many women (most I guess) to expect their husbands to be faithful to them when they don't want sex anymore or just lie there and take their husbands just as a chore with no enjoyment. Besides it's only cheating if he keeps it a secret. If she knows, it's not cheating. So what anyway? It's only sex after all. Two people enjoying themselves together. I've never understood the problem.

The gf says this too and is of the opinion that men should always have wives at least 20 years their junior because by the time the woman loses interest, the man will be old enough to probably have had enough anyway. Sensible girl. She knows that men stay sexually rampant way into their 70s and that needs servicing or they get as frustrated as fuck.

The wife and I are probably an unusual case anyway. We were always pretty open and had the attitude that it was good if friendships with mates were "consummated". Men always wonder what mates' wives are like naked, so she would show them and this was thought of as as I say, consummating our friendship. She'd get naked for us after the pub, me giving him a guided tour of her body before offering him first fuck of the evening to feel what she was like inside. We worked our way through friends and work colleagues for 25 years.

I on the other hand rarely had other pussy. Only when we swung a bit did I get any. I was happy to have MMFs tbh as she was hot back then.

She always said she wanted me to have fun too and actually tried to get a couple of her friends interested. They weren't the right sort though.

So based on all this it would be most churlish of her to object to my gf. I haven't gone so far as to showing her our porn yet though even if my gf has told me to show her. The opportunity never seems to be right somehow. I do somehow think she'd like it though. Maybe soon.