How do you get a friend to become a Jack Off buddy?
Any advice?

Best chance, I think, is after some drinking if you and he go home alone to crash maybe put in some porn and see how things go. You just kind of know if they are liberal type thinkers about sexual stuff. Most of my friends, I know never to bring it up but one is OK with it. Just be really careful cause if they are really uptight and conservative then it could affect your relationship, had that happen once too.

you could leave a porn dvd box out (if you have one) on purpose and have your bud see it. ask if he wants to watch and go from there.

Every case is different. With buds of mine, the main ingredient was discretion. Like me, my jack buds are
discreet (I believe in keeping private business private and avoiding insecure people who act "over the top" and end up broadcasting their business and yours). Usually involves a get together, sometimes beer and watching a game or movie (not always porn but when it is, straight porn is involved). Best jackbuds are usually masculine straight and curious dudes because they appreciate it when you respect their boundaries and respect their comfort zones. Every masculine dude out their knows that masculinity is something that can't be "taken away" (if it is, it was probably never really there. Hate to say that but it's true). Even so, (correct me if I'm wrong dudes), no masculine straight or curious dude in his right mind is gonna stay in a situation that attempts to make him look effeminate or rushes him into something he isn't yet ready to try. Me and my jack buds are real dudes and we like to do real dude things. Being able to appreciate getting off together is just an added benefit but nothing that has to be validated by the public (it's a private matter).

Suggest watching porn together and choose the appropriate material. Tell him it makes you horny. Or that you have masturbated watching it. Another thing I would try is to show him chat rooms with men jerking on video. If he isn't shocked, he is a prospect.

There are reputation issues and security issues and health issues. None of my friends are the kind that you could even talk about porn with, let alone watch. Its a wide gap from here to there.

Jack off buddies are very hard to find. I can't even imagine asking one of my friends - too risky. I'd stick to sites like this, not that I've had any luck here, either.

advice: keep your friends and your jerk off buds separate.

Good advice. You can have plenty of fun sharing stories in sites like JC while you stroke--(Like I am right now)

Good point Count. If you take a chance and end up alienating a close friend, that'll last forever. One of my friends saw me jacking with another mutual friend when we were drinking alot and I doubt he'll ever forget it. Keep your worlds separate, no risk in screwing things up that way!

Don't know. I have JO buddies. But we usually don't hang out as "regular friends". But when we get horny, we'll let each other know and see if we can help each other out.

I thought this site would help - but it didn't.

This is a good way to go about it. See how he reacts to this. Then go from there.