Posted on 2010-01-17 10:16 PM
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johnson said:
I dealt with this same issue when I was in college a few years ago. I always had to be careful because I went to a Christian college, so masturbation was frowned upon. Sometimes I would masturbate in the shower, but usually I'd just do it when my roommate was in class so I knew I had the room for a while. Would have been hot to have been able to jack with him, but even if he would have caught me, it never would have happened.
i agree with you. even though i go to a public college i know if my roomates caught me it won't happen so why pressure the issue and make it weird between us
Posted on 2010-01-18 08:39 PM
Bootes 
10 posts since 2009-10-30
34 year old curious from Florida
i was in a dorm all last year and my roomie and i were close friends before we moved in together.
it was nothing new being naked around each other, but when it came to masturbation he was a little iffy on it.
one day i got back early from class and walked in on him whacking the shit outta his dick. he was really embarrassed but i told him it was fine. just to prove it, i whipped out mine and finished together. now we do it all the time.
thank god i still live with him in a apt now.
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Posted on 2010-02-04 09:37 PM
sharpie22
123 posts since 2007-05-09
35 year old bisexual male from Nj
Bootes said:
i was in a dorm all last year and my roomie and i were close friends before we moved in together.
it was nothing new being naked around each other, but when it came to masturbation he was a little iffy on it.
one day i got back early from class and walked in on him whacking the shit outta his dick. he was really embarrassed but i told him it was fine. just to prove it, i whipped out mine and finished together. now we do it all the time.
thank god i still live with him in a apt now.
you are so lucky
Posted on 2010-02-04 11:44 PM
Cockflesh
234 posts since 2009-12-31
66 year old bisexual from Ohio
Bootes said:
i was in a dorm all last year and my roomie and i were close friends before we moved in together.
it was nothing new being naked around each other, but when it came to masturbation he was a little iffy on it.
one day i got back early from class and walked in on him whacking the shit outta his dick. he was really embarrassed but i told him it was fine. just to prove it, i whipped out mine and finished together. now we do it all the time.
thank god i still live with him in a apt now.
I'm glad this worked out so well for you! It sounds really hot!!! Does the apartment see lots of 'straight activity' with guests, or something otherwise?
Very hot!
Posted on 2010-02-13 10:47 AM
uncut29uk 
672 posts since 2007-06-03
46 year old male from Buckinghamshire UK
This is the key guys. Some guys are fine about nudity and as an extension of that they probably wouldn't be too shy about beating off in the company of a mate.
But other guys won't even use a urinal, and so probably wouldn't have a wank with a buddy either.
The secret to getting a mate to become a wanking buddy is to be nude around each other and build that comfort.
Once you know what the others cock looks like, it's less of an issue to watch porn and stroke together.
It's a path, and if a guy knows his buddy has no problem showing his cock he's more likely to also. It's basically bonding through nudity, and then it progresses to bonding through sexual enjoyment.
I say you should just be nude more often, other guys then follow. Shortly after that and with a little beer, watching porn together and having a stroke becomes the norm.
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Posted on 2010-02-23 06:01 AM
Snook
7 posts since 2010-02-21
33 year old curious from Florida
i live in a dorm right now. my roommate and i are really close, so anytime we dont bring someone home, we can always use each others services... lol
No Shirt, No Shoes, No Problem.
Posted on 2010-12-10 02:18 AM
cheeruwo
36 posts since 2010-11-13
45 year old from Oshkosh WI
I live in the dorm too, I am not shy to beat off in the room at all, but i do avoid awkwardness so i wait till he sleeps and jerk it away and i watch porno when he is in the room awake or sleeping lol he is too nerdy to know whats up! i wish i have a roommate that is open in sex and jerk off. I m so hard and i did jerk off earlier... but hey ... my dick is always hard.
Posted on 2010-12-10 11:43 AM
SloStroker 
7249 posts since 2006-08-21
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
I used to do it at night when my roommate was asleep. We never discussed it. It was a running joke that if you were in the shower more than 5 minutes you were jerkin.
I used to jerk in the bathroom stall quite a bit. Others did too as I saw cum on the floor a few times.
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Posted on 2010-12-10 05:12 PM
papabare
425 posts since 2006-12-30
85 year old bisexual from Chicago, IL, northeast: East Rogers Park
baseball23 said:
i'm just sitting here reading these forums and am so hard and want to whip it out and stroke so bad but because of being in a dorm at college i have roomates and can't. it is terrible. anyone else experience the same thing? i'm being drive insane.
Pick the roomie you like/trust most and ask him if he's ever heard of this website, that reading about other guys' jacking habits is funny, and sorta hot. Show him this thread and ask him what he'd advise someone in the grip of roomie-fear to do. And then do it, preferably WITH him
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Posted on 2010-12-11 01:12 AM
SloStroker
7249 posts since 2006-08-21
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
It's a shame I wasn't as bold then as I am now. I'll pretty much whip my cock out around anyone and not give a damn. But when I was in college, I was pretty modest. The fear of being branded "gay" (even though I'm not, and have no problem with those who are) was too big a risk.
I don't care now. If someone wants to call me a name, fine. I don't really care. About two years ago, a friend of mine and I were watching porn and I got a raging boner. I told him I needed to beat off, and I whipped it out. He was shocked at first, then he laughed and said, "Damn man, you are really going to jerk off aren't you? Let me get you a paper towel" He got me a towel and left the room so I could finish. I blew a huge load and moaned when I came. He asked me how it was, and I told him it was great. He told me he went to the bathroom and jacked off. I told him he could have done it with me, and he said, "Naah...just seemed too weird. I don't think I could keep it hard in front of another dude".
To each his own. I'd have loved to see him shoot a load.
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Posted on 2010-12-11 10:36 PM
goatee303
21 posts since 2009-07-23
32 year old curious from Massacusetts
We had a lockable room with a bath tub for my first semester at college. I used to stand up and lean against the wall and jerk it and usually spill it over over the floor. At that point I used spit at lube.
Now, the only really safe place I can do it is in the shower. However, my roommate is basically gone on the weekends, so I'm quite lucky with that. I don't really think I could do such things with my roommate or most people I am friends with, It just doesn't feel right. Sexual things need for me to have a certain feel about them, and with any of the four roommates I've had, I haven't really felt that. It would be nice, but I'm not too sure. Most have been explicitly heterosexual most of the time too. On the other hand, so have I
Posted on 2010-12-14 03:53 AM. Last edited by cheeruwo on 2010-12-14 04:35 AM. (1 edits total)
cheeruwo
36 posts since 2010-11-13
45 year old from Oshkosh WI
my roommate caught me jerkoff today when he walks in... and my dick went soft
Posted on 2010-12-14 04:56 AM
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cheeruwo said:
my roommate caught me jerkoff today when he walks in... and my dick went soft
too bad it went soft
Posted on 2010-12-14 05:04 AM
Adam715
141 posts since 2006-12-15
62 year old bisexual from California
Mike-edger said:
I'm convinced now the best way forward in these circumstances is just to be upfront about it and ask them straight up if they mind if you masturbate discretely in the room in bed when you're horny; after all your roommates are more than likely masturbators themselves and they'll probably feel relieved that this will give them permission to do it themselves as well. After all, its not as if you masturbating in bed causes much disturbance to them - if they're happily getting on with other stuff, or if you masturbate when everyone's in bed, the sound of the bed rocking in the background ain't going to stop them or wake them up. Unless of course it encourages them to masturbate also. But asking them also gives them the option to say yes they do object.....which i would guess they are highly unlikely to say. I don't think it leaves you in any worse position. Even if you get some gentle teasing about it afterwards, that won't last long. Its got to be worth asking the question - saves on either putting up with the blue balls or having to get up and go to the shower or a stall when it would be a hell of a lot more comfortable to just pull your broxers/briefs off and masturbate in bed right where you are. Wish i'd behaved like that in my years with roommates at college....but stupidly i was too embarassed at the time. Now I know different!
Mike is so right. Most of us were too embarassed/shy to do it in front of our roommates. As you get older, you totally know things would have been different...and a hell of lot more fun. Go for it...you won't be sorry you did..
Posted on 2023-07-22 09:36 PM
AmTrack33
187 posts since 2021-10-16
curious male from High Desert, CA
