I had a girlfriend once who didn't like me to cum on her face because she felt it was disrespectful and degrading.

At the time I tried to convince her otherwise but she was quite unyielding on the matter. As a result, I only got to do it to her twice.

Although I argued that it wasn't degrading, the truth is that I think it is... and that's why it's hot. Shooting hot, sticky, unpleasant-tasting semen all over a woman's face is not a gesture of esteem. I don't do it to show a bird that I think she's very intelligent and I want her to be president of the United States. I do it because it feels good for me and puts her in her place, marks my territory and is a bit disrespectful and gross for her.

It's not extremely harmful, of course, and some women enjoy it. But for me, the enjoyment comes from me achieving pleasure at the expense of her dignity.

What do you think? Is it degrading? Is it hot?

As a gay man I love it but then I am a bottom

Life in and of itself has NO MEANING. We humans are meaning/purpose making beings and hence we want/need to give life some meaning; it is just how the brain works. This is what guides our moral compass to some degree and what we learn from our environment. At the end, if a facial for a woman is demeaning then it is. if another woman likes it and makes her feel desired and feminine, then it means just that. You give it the meaning that you want. Whatever molded your brain to like or or dislike then it is just that.

Yes. And yes.

Apparently many young chaps who learn their sexual manners from porn these days will do it as a matter of course, when all erect and moral-free I find that quite hot, too.

I had a (rather racy) gf who had sub tendencies. She loved me to crouch over her face and wank while she licked my balls and fingered my arse. TBH I wasnt really into it too much, but she LOVED me to cum on her face.

It can sometimes be degrading but it's always HOT!!

Not a fan, myself, giving, receiving, or even just seeing. So, for me degrading - yes, hot - no.

It's absolutely degrading, you are jettisoning nasty-tasting body fluid all over a woman's face, putting her so so so far beneath you, just an object for your cock to mark and claim as your sexual plaything. That's why it is so hot. I've cummed on my own face and found it gross and humiliating - and that was MINE!

Best thing to do is to start a fuck session with a long slow prolonged jerk-off directly onto her face, THEN do everything else. Leave her masked in your starchy spunk until you are good and done with her, know that she is feeling it slop and drip all over her and get on the sheets while you are pounding away... then finish with ANOTHER FACIAL to fix all the streamers that might have gotten accidentally wiped away. The prettier her face, the better cum looks on it and the more fun it is to put it there, as much as possible, with her waiting for it as long as possible and then wearing it while it gets nasty dried out and uncomfortable on her used face.

The best part - no matter how low each facial degrades them, the next one feels just as good (for you!).

This is definitely the correct way to treat a cute, cockteasing female!

Its just cum. I would not call it degrading.

It is all in the mindset between both parties on how it is being done. Some women love it because it's an end goal of a job well done. Other women are turned on be the feeling of power imbalance as a sense of being submissive. Men use it as a visual arousal end point because to them it's arousing even more to see the end goal of a fuck session.

For me if I'm wanking to porn I've usually picked someone who portrays a "tease" "whore" trait so I'm looking for money shots to be degrading on screen at the height of my edge session in my mind I am already in the belief that I DONT CARE if the cum crusting on your face degrades you, you deserve what u get for teasing. As a matter of principle the fact that there could even be tears mixing with that cum as it drips off her chin makes my feel even more satisfied. If I'm doing it in real life it would not be that severe but I and they still know that facial cum is a sense of ownership and marking of territory

I like seeing it in porn, but I've yet to encounter anyone who appreciated it in real life.

Of course, I've seldom encountered any other conventions of porn in real life either, so I'd be careful drawing any conclusions from my experience.

If you mean it to be degrading and make a big production about it, you are degrading her.

If you don't mean it to be degrading but she makes a big production over it, it's degrading -- to her.

If she wants you to do it, if she likes you doing it, I don't see it as degrading at all.

It's not the same circumstances, but Mrs Banks used to hate giving oral and hated cum in her mouth. It was degrading to her, I think.

But one time she was sucking me and I told her, "Take my cum in your mouth and bring it to me in a kiss."

From that day forward, she loved cum in her mouth. "A lot for you, a little bit for me," she would say sometimes after she finished me. "Fuck my mouth," she used to say, her mouth full of cock.

What was once degrading had become arousing to her. Perhaps, then, it's all in the approach.

I have never seen it as degrading, although growing up and ducted to watching porn all you would ever see is the money shot. So for me shooting a load on a woman was what seemed normal and enjoyed seeing it and wishing it was my load she was getting.

Like others have said to some woman and I guess some men think its degrading, just need to respect their wishes. My wife think its degrading but its all for visual pleasure for me.

Do woman think its degrading when they are receiving oral and cum all over our faces? I know woman dont ejaculate like men but some do make mess.

I think doing anal is degrading, so its all in the eye of the individual.

I think that its only degrading if she doesn't like it and if she doesn't then she should say so. If we ever fancied trying something new or more adventurous we would speak up about it and say "do you fancy trying this" or "do you want me to". She used to like me to cum on her tits and she would lick that up but I think in our case she liked to swallow it rather than have to wipe it off. We also tried anal just the once but both agreed that it wasn't for us, perhaps we should have used a better lube at the time but we both agreed and never did it again. My point is that its all about communication and respect for each other I guess