I love women every thing about them,but I love to cam and j/o with outher guys does this make me gay or weird or what I grew up an only child,your thoughts please.....

I am not female, but will add my 8 cent's worth anyway (that is 2 with Inflation, Insurance, Income tax, and Interest)...

I have been having the same feelings for years. I can have just as much fun with a man as I can a woman.... Just call yourself bi-curious....

My ex wife and I got to play MMW, MWW, and MWT on more than one occasion, and neither of us had a problem with it. I do not see why you are troubled with these feelings.

Not a female either, but i don't see anything wrong with it bro. I love pussy and try to get as much as I can..but when not there is no problem rubbing one out with a dude, I know I am not gay i dont want to touch or be with a dude

Ok a chick's response. I don't think any sexual act makes you bi or gay - it's just sex and fantasy. Now if you are capable of falling in love with a member of the same sex, in my opinion you have crossed the threshold into gay territory. Simple, but then again, so am I.

I'm on a female either....so I won't reply.

I don't think it means you are gay or weird.It's just a simple way to pleasure yourself.I would love to have a room full of girlfriends and have a masturbation party.

thanks everyone for your comments keep them comeing please....

I consider myself str8, even though I would like to suck the cum out of a hundred cocks. I eat my own cum all the time and would like to eat other guys, but a hot babe wanting me to fuck her would be first preference, by far. So in short, you don't need to catagorize. Just do what makes you feel good, as long as it dosen't harm anyone.

This is a great answer. I feel the same way. I love my wife and we've had a grea sex life for many years. She's not really into it anymore and feels bad, but knows I jo and chat. I do realy get hot caming and chatting with another guy and satisfy myself sexually that way. It's sex. We all need it, some more then others. I agree that if you fall in love with someone of the same sex that is an emotional attachment and they I would say you are gay. Who cares. That is your business. Your the one who has to be happy

I consider myself hetero but i love watching women masturbate, orgasm and watching 2 or more women together.
I dont think that makes me a lesbian it just means that i enjoy watching people cum.

Relax, you're not gay (not that there's anything wrong with that), you just enjoy all aspects of sexuality in general. I have a couple of girlfriends with whom I masturbate on a somewhat regular basis. We do it for fun, plain ans simple. Although I'm bi-sexual, neither of the women I jill with are, nor are they particularly interested in having sex with me, although truth be told I'd love to have sex with either of them.. in fact they're both married. In any case, we have our sessions, enjoy watching each other and have a laugh and coffee or drinks afterward. We've been doing this with each other and a few other women on and off for two years or more and no-one has made any attempt to hook up and no one, except me, is anything but straight.
Enjoy yourself. We have only a finite time on this earth and should live it as fully, honestly, completely and as passionately as we can.

We guys enjoy jacking and watching each other...if a woman were in the mix we, or at least I would enjoy sharing a session with her...just the closeness and sharing of thoughts and seeing the hotness in each others' eyes as we get closer to getting off makes those sessions priceless...

Don't know what it is about guys who struggle to define themselves because they love wanking with another guy..they don't want to say they are gay but embrace the term "bi"...

The way I look at it is if I had a desire to get sucked off and was in a pitch dark room and felt a mouth on my cock I couldn't tell if it was a man or woman and wouldn't want them to stop..for the lights to suddenly come on and reveal it was a guy sucking me and be horrified just doesn't cut it...Just my opinion

What sexually arouses you and who/what you are romantically involved in/with are quite different.

I find girl-girl porn really hot to watch but I consider myself straight (because I know girls are also batshit crazy =) - face it ladies, we can be really f-in crazy sometimes).

We all need to understand that activities don't necessarily dictate your orientation.

I define "gay" as the ability to have a romantic relationship with a person of the same sex. By romantic, I mean cuddling, loving, kissing, etc. I have no desire to do that with a guy. But I do enjoy the taboo aspect of playing with a guy. I enjoy feeling another man's cock and seeing him cum. If given the choice between playing with a man or a woman, I'd choose a woman, but it's too dang hard to find a woman who wants to just "play" and have fun.

I enjoy sex. I enjoy orgasm. I enjoy it more than anything else. Why is it considered "gay" for me to jack off with a guy but not to play cards with him? Both are simply fun activities, plain and simple.

Bro this doesnt make you weird at all. You are just open to what stimulates you sexually at that time/day/mood.
Nothing wrong with that.
You have opened yourself up for more choices is all.
Not a bad thing.
For myself some days I like straight porn and other days I get off on bi or gay porn.