Like I said I hated to sound like a total noob but the unfortunate truth is I am. I'm totally new to this site, infact this is the first time I've done anything like this. I'm eager too get started but nervous about how everything on here works. Anyone got any tips for a jackinchat first timer?

Most people here are very welcoming and accepting, just be yourself, browse or share some of your personal experiences no one is here to judge.

hey! Welcome. Just just join in and enjoy. Find out peoples yahoo or skype names etc and chat in person. Have a good time

welcome to the forum. I suggest doing an introduction that talks about your self and your "interests".

your in good company, obviously everyone here enjoys getting themselves off and/or getting helping other people orgasm

On behalf of the staff here, let me welcome you to Jackinchat. On top of the advice already given, definitely just poke around the message boards here, make some posts. Join us in the chat room as well. And don't be discouraged if you don't get replies right away, sometimes the chat room is slow or people aren't very talkative.

nothing to it enjoy

Hey is anyone else having trouble with the security perameters on the chat. I haven't gotten mine to load in the past two days. If that won't load I won't have nearly as much fun letting out my load!

There's already discussion on that here: http://www.jackinchat.com/viewthread.php?tID=11330