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Short_thick_one Novice Jackinchatter

33 posts since 2008-06-29
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Never really edged before...and want to try it...where do you stop at? When the sensation starts in your balls...or before?

Sometimes I want to edge..but I let it go too far...Just want some opinions.

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fredrickj Novice Jackinchatter

1 posts since 2010-07-11
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Stopping at the right moment takes some practice. I can now almost always have at least one mini orgasm and still remain horny. Sometime two, but then the final orgasm is rather deficient of cum.

The trick is to get close to cumming but to then totally relax the muscles in your crotch. With time you'll find a mini orgasm, or slowgasm will leave anywhere form 20 to 50% of your cum in your hand. I catch mine so I can eat it.

However if I suck myself with my legs over my head, it almost always results in a complete slogasm.
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hey short-thick one, To start you might want to bate yourself up until you are nice and hard, then take a real break. Put on your clothes, go run an errand. Do that a few times. Eventually, even your softie will feel swollen and look a little purple. Your semi will feel heavier than usual. Finally, do a stroke with your best porn or chat/bate bud and see how long you can hold off. I find it works best if I try to relax my muscles around my dick and pelvis--and limiting how much i touch my rod after I get it hard. Keep in mind that once you shoot, that gooned out feeling will be gone--that can be an incentive to make it last! Good luck and let us know how it works out for you.
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Edging is absolutely brilliant and when you master it you'll never look back. I'm 58 and I only mastered edging 10-15 years ago, consequently, because I can control when I cum, my sex life (solo or partner) has benefitted hugely.

When you first begin to try and edge it can be quite difficult because the urge to orgasm is so strong. So when you're cock and balls begin to tingle in that most delightful way, rather than speeding up the stroking to bring on the orgasm, you must slow down, or even stop, let the feelings subside for a minute or so (with practise, this period of slowing down or stopping reduces to just a few seconds) and then begin the stroking as normal again.

In an edging session of 2/3 hours I can take myself to the edge many times, and the more I do it the easier it gets.

Happy edging...stroke smile
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1501 posts since 2010-12-31
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Any more tips on edging? Does it help in lasting longer when you fuck your woman? Mine wants to be fucked for over an hour. I cum after 30 mins but have been able to stay hard longer because of using daily use for cialis. Would like to fuck her for an hour or more without cumming.
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Berndt said:
Any more tips on edging? Does it help in lasting longer when you fuck your woman? Mine wants to be fucked for over an hour. I cum after 30 mins but have been able to stay hard longer because of using daily use for cialis. Would like to fuck her for an hour or more without cumming.


Yes, the more you practice, the longer you will last with your woman. Until you reach your target time, you can always pull-out when you get too close, and dive in and give her a quick "cat-bath" while you regain control. That will keep the clock ticking without you cumming before she's ready.
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It helps A BIT for real fucking... but with edging you can pause in all kinds of ways that you couldn't (or wouldn't want to) with actual sex.
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Edging is absolutely brilliant and when you master it you'll never look back. I'm 58 and I only mastered edging 10-15 years ago, consequently, because I can control when I cum, my sex life (solo or partner) has benefitted hugely.

When you first begin to try and edge it can be quite difficult because the urge to orgasm is so strong. So when you're cock and balls begin to tingle in that most delightful way, rather than speeding up the stroking to bring on the orgasm, you must slow down, or even stop, let the feelings subside for a minute or so (with practise, this period of slowing down or stopping reduces to just a few seconds) and then begin the stroking as normal again.

In an edging session of 2/3 hours I can take myself to the edge many times, and the more I do it the easier it gets.

Happy edging...stroke smile


Could not agree more. For me edging gives me control and discipline. I control how long we fuck and when I cum. I love the look on a womans face when I she yells fuck me hard and I bang at her deep and hard for 15 minutes, drenched in sweat and she says after all of that I came three times and you are just breaking a sweat. The other great result is I can fuck her take a break and repeat the cycle giving her a break every time she cums. I love the way their eyes roll back in their heads when I hop on top 4x or more. I give all of the credit to years of edging. Not only does it feel great but even if you make a mistake and give it one pump too many, it still feels great as you cum and do it all again the next time.
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I'm a rookie, only been edging for a year and a half but I have some advice.

You have to be comfortable, relaxed and in the right state of mind. I can only have a successful edge session if I completely alone with no risk of the gf coming home unexpectly. My best sessions are at night when she is out of town. If I am anxious I cum way too early and it sucks.

I also like to prep for a big time session, gets my mind in the right mode. I prefer to sit in a comfortable recliner like chair in front of my big screen. I will have the room set up with all of my lube set out, all porn available so I don't have to worry about downloading or surfing. I'll turn the lights down and sometimes have candles lit.

I also like to drink a little bit, I'll have a few beers during a long session and sometimes I dip Copenhagen, this also makes me relaxed. I also get up every so often and walk around. This makes my dick soft which delays to orgasm.

It's a lot of fun and therapeutic to spend 3 to 4 hours with a hard dick in a gooned out trance.
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brisjkr Amateur Jackinchatter

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Short_thick_one said:
Never really edged before...and want to try it...where do you stop at? When the sensation starts in your balls...or before?


The idea is to get yourself really close to cumming as you possibly can without going over the edge. Some say to stop yourself cumming you need to clench your muscles like you're trying to stop yourself pissing midstream but I find totally relaxing the muscles works best for me and I find it easier to do standing up. Anther thing I've found essential in stopping myself from going over the edge is to make sure I'm taking slow deep breaths.
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Andrew85 Amateur Jackinchatter

126 posts since 2012-10-13
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yea edgeding takes a bit of work,the more free time you have the better. for me i just keep pumping it because it felt to good and i knew when i cummed it was over so its a stop and go thng. it can exhaust you a bit tho trust me. but every 1s differnt. end result better cum shots! longer sex! feels better! thincker cock! more in control. blah blah.
this was my cum shot after edgding for 3 hours thought i would show http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=dPqzj-J669-
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Andrew85, I must say, that cum shot of your on x-tube is very impressive!! 13 shots of your gooey cum shooting out!! You are an edging expert for sure.
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