The please explain to me why I have no desire to hug, kiss, cuddle, etc. with a man but enjoy sucking cock.

I am attracted to women romantically and physically.

To me, sex is like a sport. It's something I enjoy. I'd play golf with a man or a woman, just like I would have sex with a man or woman.

I think there is a distinct difference is just "sex" and romantic sex. I don't care to kiss or make out with a man. Just doesn't do it for me, but would with a woman if I were attracted to her.

I'm not in "denial", and I think there are a lot of men who feel like I do.

Ok so seeings how we are trying to define sexuality and not behavior then technically simply because we are all on here because of our overwhelming NEED to Jack ourselves off, then wouldn't we be "Onanisexual" coming from the word onanism?

Well to be honest im the same way so dont feel all alone out there theres lots of us who are into the male organ but not the male its like we love our own and how great it feels when we are hard and how great it feels to unload our male weapon and how good it would feel to give that to another and how good he would feel
Me i aint going to kiss another guy well maybe his cock but not on the lips man
Ok im done

I agree 100%. I love women, but I have a strong desire to suck cock. I'm not attracted to the guy, just his dick.

I feel exactly the same way. The sports analogy is a good one

feel the same here really miss the feel of another guys penis in my hand

I think a lot of guys feel the way I do, but are so afraid of being labeled "gay" that they don't act on it.

I have a friend that I'm positive would love to play, but won't do it out of fear of being "gay" or "bi". Labels really are stupid.

I only cam and J/O with guys because it doesn't cross the line in being faithful to my GF, but I am completely bi, and I have no problem with being so labeled. So maybe my perspective is different. First, being bi is just a word that means you are willing to have sex with both men and women. End of story. Second, just playing with the cock IS having sex. Third, I see no reason why I shouldn't, as a man, be willing and giving enough to bond with and bring pleasure to my friends, without crossing lines of faith and honesty. Men have cocks, so we can bond using our cocks, our organs of pleasure and the emotional centres of our lives. I love knowing someone else feels good -- it makes me feel good, and turns me on. Maybe if you don't want to kiss or do other things, it's because those acts mean other things. Men bond differently with men than they do with women. I don't want to kiss another man because that is reserved for the one I love most, it being a special act of affection. Giving a friend a quick wank is also an act of affection, but less intimately connected with love, and more with simple friendship, like sharing a beer or talking about wives. Wouldn't you do a friend a favour? Finally, I must agree with those who find it of no great consequence. We are in charge of our sexual acts, but rarely of our sexual desires. If you desire a cock in your life, it's because part of your brain tells you that it is the ultimate male bonding experience, and you desire male bonding. So bond already. Yes, it makes you bi...who cares? That's what's normal anyway!

For one thing, it's exciting to be able to show your cock to an anonymous person, male or female. Could you even imagine being able to do this years ago before the advent of the internet?

My cock is not big, about 6 1/2 inches, fully erect, but, I am thick and flow precum like a hose, so showing the flow and rubbing it, on cam, with my fingers for a looker is an absolute turn on for me. If I am on Yahoo, I'll show a cum shot, but, on other sites, I don't prefer to show to all the lookers.

100% agree here too. Simply not attracted to men but totally tunred on by the sight of a hard cock. Also very stimulated by anal play but I think that is totally natural for anyone who tries!

I thought I was the same.Till I actually had sex with a man for the 1st time as an adult, age 53.
Turns out, kissing and making out aint so bad.
Comes naturally.

I've made out with a man before and didn't care for it. Sucking and playing with cock, eating cum, and having a guy blow me is good. But the cuddling and kissing just turns me off.

I even like a good anal fuck if I find someone who wants to bottom, but I am not into the "romantic" side of sex with a man.

I feel the same way. No romantic interest in a guy. I just want his cock.

With a man just an activity, no romance

well im bi so i cant speak for the straight guys but imo i think it is hott to jack with another guy. watching him get off watching you... Everybody wins in the end