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My wife pretty much lost her sex drive about 5 or 6 years ago.
Like a lot of guys my age, I started getting curious about masturbating with another guy and about 4 years ago, hooked up with a guy that didn’t live too far from me.
We get together about once a week, usually on Sunday. I tell my wife I’m going over to his place to watch a football game or something.
Since we started getting together, a few of my at home habits have changed.
A couple of years ago, I started going semi-naked a lot more around the house. At first it was just in the evening when I was on the computer, then it progressed to whenever I was home.
No comment from my wife.
Then, I stopped hiding the fact that I was surfing the net for porn by leaving the volume up so she could hear the women having orgasms.
A few times, I even left a video of a guy jacking off on replay when I’d leave the computer room.
Still, no comment.
I even got caught, on purpose, jacking off in bed next to her.
She woke up, looked down at what I was doing, then just rolled over and went back to sleep.
My point is, she knows I’m jacking off on a regular basis.
Anyway, a couple of weeks ago, I even shaved my pubes to see if there would be a comment.
When she first saw it, she looked at it then up at me.
“At least I can see it now,” I said.
Her only comment, ”That’s going to itch like crazy.”
Well, last Sunday was the first time I’d been over to my jo bud’s, since I shaved it.
When I got home, my wife asked the usual, “How was your day?”
Then, she floored me by asking, “What did ______ think of your new look,” referring, to the shaved pubes.
“Said the same thing I did,” I answered., “ ’At least I can see it now.’ ”
“Hmmph,” she sighed and went back to watching her TV show.
So, now I’ve taken the military stance of, “Don’t ask, don’t tell” because I’m sure she knows we get naked together, and probably suspects that we’re jacking together.
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Update:
I usually get together with my jo bud on Sundays, but last Sunday he had his grandsons for the weekend.
I was sitting at my computer, watching porn, as usual, with just a t-shirt on.
My wife popped in and asked wasn’t I going over to _________’s.
I told her about his weekend plans and she did her little grunt and walked down the hall.
She came back, a moment later and asked, “Why doesn’t _________ ever come here to watch the races?”
I told her he had a TV about twice as big as ours, plus he had some special in car stuff so he could watch and listen to his favorite racer.
She made her little grunt again, then said, to my surprise, “Probably wouldn’t like to have to have his clothes on, either.”
“No, don’t think that’d bother him,” I said.
“You mean having to wear some clothes,” she said.
“Either way.” I said.
“You mean he’d go naked in front of me?”
“Probably, if I was,” I answered.
”He’s a nudist,” I went on. “Been a nudist most of his life, went to nudist camps and other places like that.”
“Was his wife that way, too?” she asked.
“Yeah, she was,” I said.
“Hmmm,” she said, “Might be interesting.”
Then she walked back downstairs.
Talked to my bud about it today.
He’s okay with it.
Guess we’ll see what happens next Sunday.
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Can't wait for your next post!
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Verrry interesting!
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Like the others, I'm waiting for the next chapter to come out! Sounds like it might be, ahhh, 'INTERESTING?'
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UPDATE: Sept. 6:
I don’t think I’m getting together with my bud tonight.
Wife seems to be mad at me.
Last night, during dinner, she started asking about him and his being a nudist.
First off, she wanted to know if I really did get naked when I went over to his place to watch the races or a game.
I told her that I did and that it was no different than being naked in the locker room or the shower at the gym.
I said that it took me a few times of going over there for me to take my clothes off when I was there, but that it was the way he always was when he was at home and that now it was just a normal thing for me and the other guys to be naked when I went over there, too.
“There’s more than you?”, she asked.
I told her that, sometimes, there were other guys over to watch the race and that, yes, they were all naked.
Then she asked if I’d really let another guy be naked in front of her.
I told her that I thought, from our earlier conversation, that she knew I would be and it was okay if he was, too.
Then she looked me straight in the eyes and asked, “Were you ever naked in front of his wife?”
“Yes, I was,” I answered.
She got up, went to the bedroom and closed the door.
Hasn’t spoken to me since.
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Sorry to say, but sounds like you shouldn't have told.....
Whatever gets your rocks off!
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I have to agree. Too much info was given. My guess is that it will all blow over if you just don't push it for awhile.
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i agree with chasseur.
this sounds hot btw. wink
I am horny now.
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