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My wife and I had a brief discussion about buying a vibe for her but she wasn't sure exactly what she wanted. I figure we can start with a no-frills model and go from there, but I thought I would ask if there were any favorites or additional considerations from those that know wink

When mastrubating she's mostly about clitoral stimulation and not insertion, but I thought we better go with a slim model since she's rather tight (it takes me several minutes to get inside her after making sure she's fully wet) and she may want to use it inside as well. Are there any other areas we need to consider?
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My wife started off with a "basic" model, shaped like a penis, then later got a smaller one with flower petals around the base.

About a year and a half ago, though, she got a G-spot vibrator and loves, loves, LOVES it. Has great orgasms with it. She's also since moved on to using that smaller "flower petal" one as an anal vibe while she uses the g-spot vibe, and that REALLY pushes her over the edge.

And that original "basic" one? She gave that one to me. wink
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I tried several kinds with my wife but she always went back to a simple, inexpensive plastic one. These run on AA batteries and are nice and slim, but long enough if she wants to put it inside.

http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Vibes-Classic-7-inch-Vibrator/dp/B001U59S3O/ref=sr_1_4?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1286234078&sr=1-4
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they started selling these mini finger vibes in pharmacies, at Target, and at Meijer. Love it. My wife prefers a no frills vibrator and this adds lots of fun that we both participate in.
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Thanks for all the replies and help!
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Get her a Rabbit, it serves all purposes, totally reliable, and will give her incredible orgasms. Might even make your cock redundant.
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Hitachi magic wand. We both use it on each other
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2nd vote for Hitachi Magic Wand
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Get a bullet ! It will become her (and your) best friend.
60 and still craves it
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While the soft vibe which has a little pucker which sucks in the clit and uses vacuum from a rubber bulb to hold the clit and delight the user with focussed vibrations is likely going to be her all-time favorite toy, a Silicone G-spot model would help her learn to be less dependent on her clit for orgasms. Adam and Eve of North Carolina and Blowfish of San Francisco are good sourrces for variety and quality.
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You guys are great. Thanks!
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Old thread I know but looking to get wife a new vibe. Although it wont be her first one. This is similar to what she has now User posted image

She only uses the rabbit part on her clit and not the dildo. Well she finally broke it and its time for a new one. She said she just wanted something smaller just for clit. Im actually surprised that its her idea to get a new one. I have mention the hitachi so many times to her but she doesnt seem interested in it. Maybe it?s too big or just not a believer in it.

What are your guys thoughts? What do your wife/gf enjoy? I was even thinking of buying a few different ones and telling her it was like a lovers package deal or something like that.

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I would like to get her a Clit Sucker, a small Clit Vibe, and a G-spot vibe. Really want the Hitachi but she seems against it maybe because how big and bulky it looks.

As much of a turn on it would be to go to the adult toy store with wife, I dont think she will do it. Weve shopped in one a long while ago, guess I can just mention it and see what she says. I mean it was her idea to get a new one. It would be hotter if she went to one of those adult toy parties, I dont see that happening either though. So anyone know any good sites for toys?
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My wife likes a plain vibrating egg but when I get her very hornie she lets me put a life like dildo in her pussie and i fuck her with it since I can not get hard enough to do the job.
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Women are certainly peculiar, so what works for one will be for another the most hated object ever in the history of civilization. Mrs Banks, for example, liked a dildo but not a vibe. If I used a vibrator, she preferred it just be turned off.

But all that said, I would offer two considerations. One, don't go cheap. The more expensive ones are better made, better materials, better fit and finish. Get the best you can afford, not the least expensive or the cheapest because it is the least expensive or most cheap.

Secondly, do not get anything too big. This happened to me the first few times I bought a toy, getting something so big as to make her uncomfortable. I know, I understand, it looks so much hotter seeing her pussy split open and gripping that huge rod, but there is such a thing as too much.
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