I'm sure a lot of people on this board has done jerk meets with other males. Do you get that weird feeling after you both shoot? It;s that kind of feeling that you just want to get out of there and it feels akward. Personally, i have done a lot of jerk meets, and if I know the guy is cool and is into the same shit as me, I don't get that akward feeling anymore. I think the akward feeling might be because us str8 dudes might not be attracted to guys but after we shoot and u see this naked dude infront of you it might be weird. Anyways, do you know what i mean?

I haven't jerked with another guy in a long time, but I almost always got that feeling. The only time I didn't is when the guy was super cool afterward, I just felt comfortable since he was so comfortable. So I think you're probably right.

lol, thats completely funny. actually i believe most feel that way at times. straight or bi. it might depend on who you're with. i was completely out the door my first time and even a couple of times after. but after becoming great friends, it got deep and we could easily stick around for seconds and thirds if possible

lol, yeah the same happened in my last jerk meet. I was so horned up after we both shot at the time all over each others cocks, i said "we should do a 2nd round man". But the guy was all shot out and tired lol

Yes, I know exactly what you mean. It's like you're driven by your horniness and once you've cum that's gone and there's something inside you going: "What the fuck was that about? How could I ever have thought that was a good idea?". Then, not that long after, you're feeling horny again and the thought of someone else's hard on in your hand gets your cock stirring...

It doesn't happen all the time but it's happened more times than I'm comfortable with.

Totally dig what your saying bro ....that happened the last time me and a buddy were busting off a nut while watching porn, cum was flying everywhere, and we were totally into the moment, after we were done blowing our wads, we both never lost our hard-ons so we went for round two, which was about as intense as the first go around.....we're pretty comfortable around each other, (nothing gay) but we totally dig jacking and shooting, and we're both huge cummers, so thats a big plus

sounds hot man. shame to waste all that jizz though.

I know exactly what you mean Warren - sometimes I'll get it watching gay porn, which i really enjoy watching, and after i shoot i'll be like "what the fuck is happening? i'm not into this, get it off the screen".

And if I'm camming with some random, and there's not really a connection there, after I jizz I just wanna bolt, do the old 'command+Q' and go and clean up.

But if we have a friendship connection - doesn't have to be mates for ever, but just a decent, civil wank session and I'll hang around and chat.

I think the awkward feeling ultimately comes down to being really really horny and doing something that you wouldn't have otherwise done. Example - i am happily bi, but these days I just want to keep it to mutual jacking as i'm engaged and don't feel right doing anything more than sharing a wank with a buddy. But one time a mate of mine and I traded blow jobs, hot time, we were both fucking horny and really into it, but after we shot, we were both really uncomfortable with each other.

We did end up grabbing lunch, watching a movie and then jacking off again (no blowies this time) - but the awkwardness came from us both being fucking horny, in the moment, and letting our horniness take us past what we were comfortable with.

I don't think this just applies to face to face jo meetings. It seem like a lot of guys in chat and vidchat will just abruptly cut out after they shoot their loads--not very polite!
...and how many times have your heard "Well, I've got to go clean up now, catch u later sometime." CLICK!

I've always thought this was at least partially a function of male physiology. Once we men orgasm we very often go into a period of very low (or NO) sexual arousal. Like the "off" switch was thrown! For myself, I've found it takes a bit of "letting go" and relaxing to get past that point and stick around, which I tend to like to do to end an encounter (online or in person) on a good note.

Awesome!! I love that there is a thread about this. Back when I use to jack with my bud in middle school I always got that wierd awkward feeling after shooting a huge load by his hand. The only way I could describe it is that I didn't wanna be around him anymore - almost like things just got too gay for me or something. I really kinda feel regret about the last time we hooked up. He talked me into letting him suck me and after I came I asked him to leave. That was the last time I saw him (circa 94) until about a few weeks ago when I found him on facebook. I'm thinking about maybe an amends is in order.

I KNOW!!!!
I went to a gay hang out place for the first time. Had a BJ and felt good. But once he stoped i was out of there like a bat out of hell. I want to go back but IDK

My teenage buddy was the same way. He would always lose interest as soon as he shot his load so I learned very quickly to (at first) have him jack me off first and then later to make sure he sucked me off first before I sucked him off. I never "lost the mood" but he definitely wanted it over when he was "done".

I tend to agree. In my own experiences this is definitely the case.

yup, have witnessed many "cum and run" occassions !