I did mutual masturbation with a guy when we were teenage and I totally know this feeling, lol. I think it's combination of physiology (as shepm00n said) and psychology too. I mean when you're not gay or not comfortable about having something with boy, you just "get it" as it was something really bad and you may feel guilty or something. For some people it may be even connected with religion.
I mean everything is ok till you came and then you just get those bad feelings. For me it is very similar to feeling after cheating my GF when I came with another girl.

I think it's common and probably relates to moral views enforced through society and the immediate loss of sexual desire once a guy shoots.

Most of us have subconscious views and opinions that we might not really follow but are there because society has forced this throughout our lives. There's the most common thing about being "gay" that usually interferes with the mind in sexual encounters too.

I've even met openly gay guys who run after a shared wank because in the back of their mind there's this stupid voice telling them something they actually don't accept as reality.

It could also be related to adrenaline too. It's closely related to the flight-or-flight mechanism so that could also play a part.

You mean that some guys might kick the shit out of you after you've given them a hand job?

totally agree. You get all horny and want to explore stuff and cum and afterwards you are like..what did i just do lol

I agree with your other views and this which applies in nature. Very few mammals hang around after sex and birds certainly dont! But some small mammals apparently stay F....king for days !

I've only done cam 2 cam and honestly, how are you supposed to end it? I'd kind of like to know. What do you talk about or transition into after that? I'm a newbie so forgive my blunt questions.

This is the "guilt" that I mentioned once before in a post and was chastised for it as being "religious" etc. After I cum, I'm a different person for a while. The first time I did cam 2 cam, we both came, I went to clean up, then came back and smashed my cam because "I was never gonna do that again". Well, a few days later, I got another cam, and I still do it, but I've been hesitant about cumming online. Don't want to have to buy another camera, lol. Naw, I just know that it's more intense if I do it with someone watching, and I can live with it if I cum alone. Can anybody tell me how to overcome this? I remember being this way in high school with my jack buddy.

I know the feeling well. I've done about everything you can do sexually, and when I'm with a guy and a horned up, I'm really into it. As soon as I cum, I am NOT into him anymore. Just wanna get dressed and get gone. I've learned over the years to deal with that feeling and basically ignore it. A few times I've gotten horny again and fooled around some more. Other times I just make small talk and hang out.

With a woman, I enjoy the time after. Cuddling and kissing, but that stuff doesn't interest me with men. It's all about getting off.

Sometimes it's like that and you both know it. Othertimes it's nice to hang out naked a bit, grab something to drink, chat, resume some cock play and then we are both hard again ready to enjoy another orgasm together. I do prefer the later.

Wow this thread truly reflects my feelings. This is why I have been extremely hesitant with meeting anyone. I would prefer the other guy not feeling ill will towards me afterwards. But overcoming these feelings has been quite a challenge.

I take it more as just an occasion for buds to get together. Guys meet to play vid games, watch sports, shoot the shit...and to get naked and play between our legs. If you go in with that attitude, just hanging a bit after a shoot is just a natural and polite thing to do. You don't bolt out the door as soon as you finish a vid game. We are all busy, and probably took a lot more time to shoot our cream we thought it would...so I don't generally chat a lot. Just clean up a bit while I go soft.

This is such an old thread, But very interesting. So thought I'd try to bump it forward to present. Am sure some current guys would be interested And also add some of their thoughts.

I have had the feeling like now I've cum so thanks and see you later! With some it was enjoyable to hang out nude a little longer, have a beer and conversation! Seems each case is different!

I have experienced this with every mutual jack session I have done with someone for the first time. The second time and forward it has not been the same and neither one had that awkward feeling. Seems to me it is related to "putting yourself out there" when you are horned up and will do anything to cum, and then the natural male let down after orgasm. The best part is, unlike your wife or GF who wants to cuddle, you can grab a beer or two after with enthusiasm on both parties part and no scolding!

I haven't jacked with someone in person since HS and even then he was my best friend for years prior. We never felt awkward. I'm now looking to hookup for jacking and maybe more. I suspect early on it will feel awkward before, during and after the actual event. I'm trying to learn about the person before we first meet so there will be some comfort level and no drama when we meet but even that's not a given. I'd like to think we could have an "after dinner drink" so to speak to either bask in what just happened or drown our shame.