I should clarify I meant with another guy not "someone." Females yes; males no.

I've sometime been in the mood to leave after I'm done, but I also feel compelled to help the other guy out -- whether that's telling sex stories, or offering a helping hand, or the like. Sometimes, though, I just want to hang out and recover and catch my breath for a bit when we're both done, but, yeah, something the other guy starts feeling guilty.

Truthfully, it's most awkward to be the second (or last, if in a group) guy to come, with the other guy(s) just waiting for you to get off and get going. Been there. That's happened a few times. I just think about the hottest thing I can imagine and fire my load to get done.

If you cum last doesn't that mean you have to eat the soggy biscuit?

I never felt much guilt after I orgasm with another guy, but never had the opportunity to stick around long enough for me to bone up again. But I never just throw my clothes on and bolt either. Unless I got some real time constraint I'm up against, I like to hang out naked for at least 10-15 minutes after the last one cums and compare loads and relax as our cocks go limp.

One guy I really clicked with was cool with trading porn for a while afterward, and it was nice almost forgetting you're naked and trading porn from your collection with someone you just met.

After I had some more experience jacking off with guys, I had one that asked to touch my cock again several minutes after I came and had gone flaccid. I told him to be gentle as I was still somewhat sensitive down there. It felt relaxing to have him squeeze my limp dick and play with my pubic hair, and I'm sure if I would have stuck around long enough I would have boned up again for him.

I have done several cam to cam JO's and yeah, 99.9999% of the time, when they pop, they are gone.
I can relate though. I've done it.
But one time, the guy totally was into it and instructing me on how he liked to see me masturbate, and I warned him when I was about to shoot, he then told me stay on cam after you blow your load. So I did. Then he had me play with my cum, scooping it up and slathering it back on to my still hard cock. He said to stroke again. So I did, it felt SO GOOD masturbating with my own cum. I totally got lost doing it more that I ended up having another orgasm, basically forgetting that he was still watching me on cam. Although when I climaxed the second time, just a bead of cum oozed out. But the feeling was so intense. He even wanted to watch my cock throb and do the post-orgasm cock spasms and even waited for me to go soft.
Then I watched him cum and do the same.
From then on, I will stay on cam after cumming. Everyone seems to appreciate it and enjoy the cum play.

I get that same feeling, too, but it's when I use my left hand instead of my right. Awkward!

No, but seriously, that's why I don't play with myself or let myself cum when I go to a glory hole. I get really turned on sucking strangers off, but I noticed the first couple of times that if I came, as soon as the orgasm was over, I'd feel super weird and get the hell out. It was almost like remorse, maybe. Something like that.

Now I wait until I get home before I shoot my own load after having swallowed one or two.l

That has happened several times. I can't say that I never zipped up quick or left soon after, but I always thought it was better when you can hang a lil afterwards have a beer or bs or something like that, doesn't make it seem so cheap then.

That has happened several times. I can't say that I never zipped up quick or left soon after, but I always thought it was better when you can hang a lil afterwards have a beer or bs or something like that, doesn't make it seem so cheap then.

exactly, glad im not the only one lol

I'm just the same. I meet with another guy just a few years older than me. We're both "straight" and that we're happily married for 40+ years each but have recently discovered we enjoy a bit of male-male contact.
It's easy being totally naked and doing all sorts together when I'm feeling really horny, but I agree, as soon as I've cum I feel awkward and embarrassed about what we've just done together.
It sounds odd, but we always have a cup of tea after we've both cum. He doesn't feel awkward the same as me, so when I reach for my clothes to cover up afterwards, he says not to rush.
He likes to just sit together naked on the couch afterwards and even starts feeling my flacid cock and man boobs. I'm more relaxed about it than I used to be at first.

Best mutual masturbation session was with a guy who's on JC, but we met through a different forum. We both are married, and we share a fetish for women's shoes and pretty female feet.

It turns out we wanted to see another guy unload on our women's heels and sandals so we agreed to meet up, trade their pics and their shoes, and blow a load. One load turned into three for each of us ... the first two were about our intended meeting, while the last one was about two horny, boned-up married guys who just wanted to help a brother get off.


We were at his place for about two hours altogether ... he worked from home, and i took a very long lunch. His wife, a real cutie, was at work. She is super sexy ... a 30-something brunette with a gorgeous smile and great legs. He was about her age, and he was into older women (my wife is about 20 years older than him, but looks like his wife's older sister). If the opportunity ever arose, we agreed, we'd gladly swap spouses for a few hours.

For me, it was so exciting to meet a guy who understood exactly what I was into ... because he was into the same stuff.

I will try to you all know how it goes this coming Monday morning when a new connection visits me for the first time!

I think after reading some of the other posts on the thread has given me some insight. I've talked on here for the past 20 years and there were times, not in person or on webcam, where after having jacked and RP/cybered with a guy and afterwards asked myself the same question "Why did I go thru all of that?" or I'd spend easily 2 or 3 hours to find one person to talk to and get zero. A lot of abbreviated chats where guys ghost me or the room is too slow not worth trying to carry on a conversation and think why did I waste that much time.

Years ago I knew I didn't want a webcam for the reason that it is something private and it's not something you really show to people who are complete strangers. Wasn't until 2015 when I got a Amazon Fire Kindle for Christmas and one of the apps for downloading was Skype. I had some time to myself and tested it seeing how I looked on the camera which gave me the idea to try webcamming with people but either there were connection issues or finding out from the few people I did webcam with they only stayed for less than a few minutes. Just long enough for them to sign on, cum and leave.

I could understand guys who have to work or have college and need to get on with their day but if I would put myself out there I would want it to be substantial instead it appears to be men who are looking for a quick fix or instant gratification with the vicarious thrill of stroking with another man without actually being in person. Once it's over you leave and forget about it like it never happened. I don't know. That feels like the attitude. Because of what society has ingrained into everyone that any sexual activity between men isn't straight or be comfortable and screw labels. One guy I talk to recently said don't overthink it, relax and enjoy it, and if not don't do it.

What I had realized over the years from having coming here a lot is my need for male friends which I have lacked which became a whole other thing. My best friend recently bought me a webcam so we could talk and now it's I am curious to try it out with others. Maybe explore my sexuality? But still end of the day just about wanting friends and social closeness with other guys. I've always been introverted and never left my comfort zone.

I would want to make a friendship and build trust then could consider more which by that time you have already gotten to know the person and you are both comfortable with each other.

Have to agree that it is all about compatibility. If jacking (or other things) with a like-minded friend, then there isn't awkwardness after cumming, because you both are on the same wavelength, so to speak. But, when you meet a guy just for the sake of scratching that sexual itch and there isn't a true compatibility, the after orgasm awkwardness will likely always be there.

Every time I jerk off with a complete stranger I always leave after I blow my load. I got what I wanted and could care less if the other guys blew his load it not. I know it's messed up but it's just what I do with having no attraction to guys. When I had a regular bud to jack with it was different, make sure each other finished and had a good time.