anyone ever meet a bud on craigslist. sometimes i jerk and look at the ads. kind of want to meet up with someone when i travel, but seems like it can be sketchy. any buds wanna share their experiences w/ me. what worked what didn't. also be hot to trade some self pics and swap stories too. inbox me.

its weird but i have met more couple for mfm on cl than i have met guys to jo... the single guys always seem so sketchy as u put it..maybe because i was only lookin for str8 guys to jo with ..

but cl can work if you play the odds, that is post often and use a pic those are the ones that people view most.. meeting place is where u feel comfortable ..

not sure if that helped

In the past I've had pretty good luck finding JO buddies on craigslist. (It probably helps that I live in a big city, which increases the likelihood of finding someone.) What worked for me was being completely upfront and honest about myself and what I'm looking for, and always very clear about the stuff I will not do with another guy. It's true that some replies seem sketchy so trust your instincts when reading the replies. Be cautious, but keep in mind that with a little effort you can absolutely find what you're after. Through craigslist I've had some great experiences, both one-time-only sessions and a couple of regular jackoff buddies.

Jacking with another guy is a new experience for me but I've had very good luck finding guys to jack with on CL. Most are looking for "now" or "asap" but I've also been able to set up a meeting within the next few days or even next week. Some guys who travel post ads in the city they'll be in next week trying to line up something before they get into town.

As mentioned by others, pics will increase your chances of getting a response. I also save time by posting my complete stats in my ad, so the reader knows up front what my height, weight, body type, ethnicity, cock size, cut or not, etc - this can save a lot of needless replies asking for this kind of info . . . Also, be VERY clear about what you want to do and/or are willing to do AND be very, very clear about what you will NOT do - set your limits clearly in your ad and it'll save a lot of hassles and wasted time down the road!!!

Never give out private info in your ad and always meet in a safe, public place initially - then you can proceed from there, if you choose to. Just basic, common sense really.

It has worked well for me and I've enjoyed my experiences so far from CL - there are ALWAYS other guys out there who feel much the same as you and are curious about "trying" something with another guy! Play it safe, give it a try, and have FUN!!!

Here's my quick story.

I responded to an ad for mutual jo. We exchanged some emails, and agreed to meet. I haven't done this before, so I was paranoid about what may happen (you never know who you'll meet). Because of that, my rule was to meet the guy at his place. We arranged to meet at a parking lot, and then go to his place.

We end up meeting in a parking lot, and he says that we can't go back to his place because his wife was awake and wondering where he was going (I knew about her before). We couldn't go to his place now, and although he seemed ok, I wasn't bringing him back to my place. He offered to j/o in the car, but I wasn't interested in that. We ended up going our separate ways without doing anything.

I suppose that isn't a tip, but I wanted to tell my story.

CL is a good place to meet lots of guys, because the spammers haven't overtaken that "M4M" category just yet. Obviously; be careful & I usually follow the strategy of placing a few ads, my serious one and a few "just want to get off dont care about anything else ..." so i can cross reference the responses and weed out people who send a reply to anything, generic ones, etc etc ...

I've only truthfully met a small # of guys on there, and like real life it's relatively easy to find someone you're comfortable with. I mostly cruise the ads because some of them are hot & it turns me on thinking of local guys wanting to get off I could easily meet up with.

best of luck to you!

Hey bro,
Good for you trying to make something happen instead of sitting around lazy or afraid. There are some tips on my jerkoff resources page for finding a bud. Check it out... http://bellsouthpwp2.net/k/w/kw51370/j2tindex.html

thanks for the great advice bros!

I have to agree with you on this one. I have met some Jo buds on CL before usually just for a one time thing. I have yet to find someone for on going jack off bud. Just be upfront and what you expect out of the experience. I would have to agree with everyone and meet in a public place first.

any body have any success stories?

if you mean did we meet and get off together, YES! Been dere, done dat! As mentioned, use some common sense and you can meet up with someone and get off together!!!! I've done it more than half a dozen times so far and still am doing it!

About 50%/50% good experiences, here. No bad ones, but, didn't "go there" with 3 out of 6 guys that I met up with from CL while traveling. Definitely meet in a public place where you can talk and see where things go. Since I was on the road, I had a motel room already... that helped things out a lot. Didn't have to worry about "the wife coming home", etc.

I tried CL but it wasn't for me.
Try social networks like B8M8 Network. Completely dedicated to guys looking for wanking buddies with regional groups and so on.

I've had a lot more luck there than I have anywhere else.

And of course, checking out the profiles here helps/ You can search by your location and see how many come up.

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