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imark Amateur Jackinchatter

203 posts since 2010-11-18
54 year old heterosexual
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I have one friend I can talk to about jacking off, cocks, etc... He used to be a jackoff buddy of mine.

He is also the only friend of mine who's cock I have really been able to look at. At the gym I occasionally catch a glimpse of other guys. My wife and I went to a nude beach and it was really nice to see both guys and girls openly nude to see the variety of cocks, pubic hair styles etc..

How many friends do you have that you can talk to about masturbation and how many occasions do you get to see other nude guys?
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822 posts since 2007-03-03
62 year old homosexual from Montgomery County MD
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For most men, I would venture to guess it's pretty rare that we have friends with whom we can talk really openly and honestly. I think it usually starts off in a joking fashion, to hide the nervousness or fear that we'll be judged. With age and time, though, it just becomes more matter-of-fact and easier. hardly clinical, just without pretense or need to exaggerate or fudge the truth. it is what it is. I don't have many friends I can chat about this with, but it is wonderful to have one or two.
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615 posts since 2007-02-05
59 year old homosexual from alabama
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If they weren't afraid as already said, they'd probably be a heck of a lot more open than just talking about cock and jacking, they'd probably be on their knees in front of you begging for your seed.

I know it wouldn't be every friend, but I bet you'd be surprised at how many would do just that.
"give a buddy a hand, he wants it more than you know.."
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1251 posts since 2009-03-08
77 year old from Connecticut
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GuyHudson said:
For most men, I would venture to guess it's pretty rare that we have friends with whom we can talk really openly and honestly. I think it usually starts off in a joking fashion, to hide the nervousness or fear that we'll be judged. With age and time, though, it just becomes more matter-of-fact and easier. hardly clinical, just without pretense or need to exaggerate or fudge the truth. it is what it is. I don't have many friends I can chat about this with, but it is wonderful to have one or two.


I could not have said it better. I have never talked openly with any of my friends about masturbating, even though it is common knowledge that all men do it. I think it was just the way we were brought up. It was always a "taboo" subject when I was young. It has to do with the age, I guess.
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HandsoninVan Novice Jackinchatter

8 posts since 2010-11-26
44 year old curious male from Vancouver , Bc
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i wish mine were more open... thats why i am here. its so exciting to share & jack off for someone else
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SloStroker Omnipitant Jackinchatter

7249 posts since 2006-08-21
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
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I have a friend I can talk openly with, and I've even jerked while he watched. He just won't join in.
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droool Novice Jackinchatter

60 posts since 2010-09-07
67 year old bisexual from Michigan
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I've found that jacking off is alot easier to mention/joke about now than in the past. Maybe it corresponds to how men can hug each other more than in the past.

I have been lucky enough to have a good friend that became a jo and suck bud. If he lived close by, I'd probably not be here, compensating..LOL
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meatbeater Amateur Jackinchatter

270 posts since 2006-09-13
66 year old heterosexual from Midwestern US
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I don't know if they're open or not, and have no interest in finding out My rich and happy life as a masturbator is secret from them and is going to stay that way.
I'm a fist-fucking beatoff! See a video of me masturbating and pics of my hard dick! http://xhamster.com/user/rodpumper, and my new blog at http://xhamster.com/user/rodpumper/blog/1.html
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caddy Amateur Jackinchatter

120 posts since 2006-02-26
46 year old heterosexual from Homosassa Florida
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the funny thing is we all jerkoff, but alot won't even talk about it. i've had a few friends that would talk openly about it, some that would only make joking comments about it. It seems that i've always been way more horny than most of my friends, sure i have jo with some of them, watching porn & stuff but not much was said during the act. the few friends that were open about it actually watched me jo on a few ocassions & didn't seem to bother our friendship.
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I'm lucky to have a few friends (male & female) who I can speak openly with about jacking off and other sexual topics. I've enjoyed hearing of their thoughts, experiences and practices, and they have heard mine. Haven't had any physical contact with them, but I wouldn't turn down the chance!
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1564 posts since 2007-01-16
57 year old bisexual male from Near Glenella Manitoba Canada.
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GuyHudson said:
For most men, I would venture to guess it's pretty rare that we have friends with whom we can talk really openly and honestly. I think it usually starts off in a joking fashion, to hide the nervousness or fear that we'll be judged. With age and time, though, it just becomes more matter-of-fact and easier. hardly clinical, just without pretense or need to exaggerate or fudge the truth. it is what it is. I don't have many friends I can chat about this with, but it is wonderful to have one or two.
I am lucky enough to have a few friend's where we get together for beer and porn jacking and sometimes sucking eachother depending on our level of horniness once we had a fem friend who having some beer's suggested watching an unmarked tape I had sitting on the bookshelf uncomfortably I agreed and so the 4 of us 3 guy's and 1 gal had a great eve lol and all through it we managed to keep thing's calm and lighthearted. We're all married individuals so session's are rare but awsome.smileboobspussycockstroke
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abylop11 Novice Jackinchatter

18 posts since 2011-02-09
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When I was in high school, me and a few of my friends used to have a lot of sleepovers. After the lights were out we'd all still be talking and the conversation would always turn to porn and jerking off. We'd talk about what kinds of things we liked to see in porn and what turned us on. It was also hot when we started to talk about girls we all knew at school. We'd say things like "Oh my god, how hot would it be if Alisha was bouncing on your cock right now". We all had huge hard on's the whole time and we all knew it.
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309 posts since 2006-02-17
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When we were in high school, small southern town, and learning about sex, most of the boys openly talked about jacking. Usually when we spent the night together we would jack off, and look at each others dicks.
After leaving school it hasn't happened. I have an online friend I have never met in person, that I talk about jacking. We have a lot in common, have traded pics etc.
When I was in my late 40s and 50s I had two different female friends that would talk about sex online with me. (not together, they didn't know each other)
Both said they didn't masturbate, but would talk about their sex lives and blow jobs, etc. One used to talk with me on the phone about sex. Yet neither would never talk about sex in person for some reason. And neither would let me send them a nude (non sexual) picture of me. Yet they would tell me how cum tasted to them. Many times when we were talking I told them how I had a hard on, and it didn't seem to bother them.
There was never any question that we would get together sexually, It was strictly talking.
After a few years both have stopped talking about sex at all. We are still friends, but no more naughty talk. WOmen are strange.
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25 posts since 2008-10-28
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309 posts since 2006-02-17
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TO answer the question. The only friend I have that will talk about jacking with me is online. We have never met in person, although we have a lot in common. I haven't talked with my regular friends about it since high school
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