I wish I could be more open about my wank habits with my friends. I often spend Sundays reading forums and watching porn. However, I do it with the sound off so my house mates can't hear and normally only blow my load once. I wish I could be more open and let my house mates know what I get up to on a Sunday. I'm sure they wouldn't mind, infact I suspect they might find it funny, I just haven't got the nerve to tell them.

I think most of us wish the same thing...

i agree but i think thats why ive really got into chatting with guys on ym about stroking lets me be open about my habits there and wont be judged and able to find like habits

I wish I was more open about it when I had roommates. The thought of my ex-roommate walking in on me and catching me and offering to give me a hand would've been so fucking hot! And of course I would've gladly returned the favor for him.
Damn, I really miss him and his amazing athletic body sometimes.

I'd love to be able to say "there's nothing on TV tonight - anyone up for watching a gang bang movie?"

Custards,
The crazy thing is, you mates are probably doing the same thing at the same time.

I too sure wish I could chat openly with my non-Jackinchat friends about the pleasures of jacking.

It would be nice if we were all more open about it - since I can't imagine a guy who doesn't enjoy playing with his cock, getting hard, stroking, and just enjoying all the wonderful sensations and pleasures that our cocks give us... and they are virtually impossible to ignore. But, other than passing comments, we rarely talk about it... being more open about something we all enjoy would be a nice thing.

Very well said, completely agree with you.

I do wish that everyone was more open about masturbation. It is natural and we all know everyone does it. I have often thought what it would be like to open a place where guys could openly masturbate with each other. Then I realize not everyone is as secure about their sexuality as I am. We as men are visual and I am sure almost every guy has thought about what it would be like to watch another guy jerk off. A majority of us has had jerk off buds when were just starting puberty, so what wrong with it now.

Absolutely right. We all do it, but we refuse to talk about it (except in forums like this). Talk about masturbation today is about where talk about sex was 100 years ago.

I had a good mate years ago, i helped him move once, we were hot and sweaty he had an outdoor shower and asked if i wanted to cool down. While i was wshing he stood near the entrance watching me and told me i looked good and had a nice cock. I got out and he stripped and walked in. He had the biggest cock and i though "he watched me so..' I told him his cock looked great and he started getting hard. We ended up in his garage just watching each other jack off and talking about jackin off, sex, our wives. We jacked off for about 5 years about once a month till he passed away. I had always loved jackin off and that just happened so naturaly. Wish i could find someone to do it with again.

I must live in different circles. Among most of my friends it is a discrete subject--but perfectly fine to talk about.

I see two issues here.

One is simply that since almost all men masturbate and a goodly percentage of women masturbate, why am I so inhibited about admitting that I masturbate?

The other is surely there are people I encounter in the course of my ordinary activities who would enjoy masturbating with me. Wouldn't it be great if there was some way of knowing of this shared interest?

What's funny to me about the whole thing is that it is more socially acceptable to talk about fucking someone than it is to talk about masturbating. I'm much more likely to hear someone say "man, I'd sure like to fuck [some celebrity]" or "man, did I have a good lay last weekend" than I am to hear someone say, "man, I can't wait to get home and enjoy a good wank" or "wouldn't it be great to watch [some celebrity] rub her clit?".

Many of my friends know that I am a nudist. I've learned to be much more open about my enjoying being nude and I've found that people are more accepting of it than I might have thought. A number have seen me nude. And a few have gotten naked with me. But it seems much more difficult to casually bring up the topic of masturbation in a conversation, or how much I enjoy it, much less how I enjoy masturbating socially.

Isn't it up to us to start changing this. To find ways to bring masturbation into conversations without turning people off or offending people. To start changing attitudes toward greater acceptance of masturbation and the realization that masturbating with someone might be a whole lot safer that a lot of other sexual activities and yet still a whole lot of fun!

On a Saturday night, after having had a few drinks (liquid courage), and before heading off to bed proclaim to your roomies "I'm gonna be getting up in the morning to jack off to some [insert what you jack off to here!]if anyone would like to join or just watch. If not, at least you'll know what the sounds are coming from my room." Then on Sunday morning, after your j/o session, go out into the living room and talk about how great it was getting off and tell 'em it was so good you're probably gonna do it again later in the day. I guarantee the more you talk about it the more the others will come out of their shells and may even join you! If not, they'll at least talk with their other friends outside of your circle which may result in a "friend" that seeks you out because they secretly like doing the same thing. If you do this you have to let me know how it turns out!

Yes, I wish masturbation was a normal acceptable topic of conversation and not just something joked or hinted about. Of course, then that's probably all I'd ever talk about.