I am looking for advice from women. My current gf does not enjoy having sex as much with me due to the fact I am well endowed. I am 9" and she says it hurts when I thrust in to her? Any suggestions ladies? I try to be gentle but enjoy having sex deep, not just sliding in the top of her vagina and not sliding all the way in. I have used lube and that helps somewhat. Any other women have such problems?

Well I don't really know whats going on with your girlfriend. Especially if youre being gentle. All I know is it looks nice. It seems like it should feel good too lol. Sorry I don't have any better advice. Maybe she just isn't able to have so much, the way she is inside? Idk. Maybe her gynecologist would know if she asked?

I'm only 7" and it took my wife (then gf) two months of trying before sex didn't hurt. She has a small vagina. They are like cocks, come in all sizes.

You have a giant cock. Not many women can handle one that big.

Unfortunately i don't share your problem as i'm 6 inches hard , but what i've read is that a vagina should be able to accomodate a penis that size once the woman is fully aroused . So spend plenty of time with foreplay and spoil her with lots of oral to make sure she is really ready . She could also grip the base of your shaft with her hand and control how deep she lets you inside her . Hope you find a way around what must be a very frustrating problem for the both of you . Oh and plenty of lube too !

Found this link:
http://forums.ivillage.com/t5/Sexy-Secrets-Expert-Advice/He-s-too-big-what-can-I-do/m-p/109774169
Mentions similar problem from a female's point of view with advice on different positions.
Also heard of a cock ring/donut that you place on the base of the shaft to allow deep thrusting without hitting her back wall.
The above post also has great points.

Dude, lay back and let her straddle your cock on top, so she can control how deep you go. Let her adjust to it.

I'm 8" and the same thing happened here. It took my wife a few months, but now she wants it harder and deeper.

Yes i can relate to your problem and have had the same issues with a few females but not all.
I think its already been said but let your g/f control the penetration by her being on top some gals cant handle 9" thrusting in them some can so if you care for her give it a try i know i did and she enjoyed it more and heck i didnt have to do anything
Well keep it hard for her

My biggest problem was when my girlfriend would say, "is it in yet?"

If guys get "hard on's" do women get "wide on's"?

I'm almost 9", and have never had a problem. My wife has a small pussy, and she loves my cock thrusting fast and hard! I would suggest a trip to the dr.

I had a lover in my early 20's that had a very long and thick cock. If I didn't get proper foreplay it would hurt. I could actually feel it hit my uterus and was very painful.

Maybe some kind of cuff around the base so you don't penetrate her all the way but still feel a grip on your whole shaft? There's got to be something out there like that.

FIND A GIRL WITH A DEEPER VA-JAY-JAY :-)

Sadly, I don't have that problem with my 6 incher. However a buddy of mine was nearly 10 inches and he had a very tough time fucking women until he figure out that rolling up a towel and wrapping it around the base of his cock would still allow deep thrusting yet give her only about 6 inches.... after a while of trial and error, he eventually made a pillow (with a washable cover...ha ha) that was in his nightstand.....he gets it all the time now.

This is the answer dude. Just use positions which let her control the action....depth of penetration, speed of stroking, etc. She needs to get on top and take control of your dick.

One idea I heard about was that some guys get some thick foam rubber and cut out circular donuts which they put on their hardon before they put it in her. The foam rubber spacers hold you off and keeps you from plunging the full length of your dick into her.