For guys who prefer to top, is it because you want to feel superior in the relationship, or is it simply because you prefer the feeling of physical pleasure of fucking another guy instead of being fucked?
For me, I consider myself a bottom. Not because I want to feel dominated, but because I would rather suck than get sucked, and as far as anal (which I haven't tried YET) I fantasize a lot more about feeling the physical pleasure of getting fucked, instead of doing the fucking. Very rarely, when I'm jerking to porn, I see a guy that I feel like I could be versatile with. Like if he has a nice smooth feminine looking ass I fantasize I could even fuck or rim him, but otherwise most of the time I would prefer to get fucked, and in either/both end(s).
Then again, sometimes I do feel a desire to be dominated. Not forced with physical violence, but to be coerced into servicing and pleasuring a group of guys.

I am a top, but I am definitely not the dominate personality in our relationship. I think, for me, it is primarily the desire for the pleasure of getting off that impels me to be the top (although I have been fucked four times in my life).

i always wondered what it would be like to have my ass pounded and to suck a cock

Being a top, I can say that it is because the feeling of penetrating is better for me than being penetrated. Asses are by nature tight, and the tighter the hole I'm getting into, the better. I've been on the receiving end, and although it was "interesting", I would not care to repeat it. If that makes me unfair in playing, so be it.

I don't so too much anal but when the opportunity arises, I prefer bottoming only because it feels so nice when I relax and get into it. Never was into the dom/sub thing but really enjoy it with a nice man who get his pleasure on top.

Total bottom here, I can be submissive at times between the sheets but that is because I get so much pleasure from it. I love taking and sucking cock as NOTHING gets me off more. Nothing to do with our relationship because I am the dominate one there ...

I used to be top years ago because I couldn't withstand the pain of being penetrated. Plus, I had this silly notion that being bottom would feminised me. Now I'll take the btm role because I'm enjoying it a more. Much more than being top.
However, orally I'm versatile.

Mmmm! I am a bottom because I love the sensations of sucking and of being fucked but I am also submissive so I love the wonderful feeling of being able to "surrender" and hand over control to someone else. In my case that can include all the kinky stuff that gives my top complete control of me. James

I've topped guys before and enjoyed it, buy my pleasure cums from being a bottom. It's a little bit of both pleasure and submission. I enjoy the feelings of having a top dominate me, being a bottom brings out my sub side and I give myself up to my top. I also enjoy the pleasures I feel ashen being penetrates by a cock, the feeling of my tops cock when it all the way, balls deep inside my ass and the sensation of him screwing me til I feel his cock swell and pump his cum in me. For me the best feelings are from being a bottom.

being a little bit submissive is hot, nothing rough, just the partner being in charge so he can pick the position, or say what he wants to have or have done. letting him be the the one to initiate the sex and do his desires. nothing could be better

I never dould get into the dom/sub thing. Sure, I like to be fucked by a nice man; the feeling is wonderful, but never in any kind of a submissive role.

I am a bottom and just prefer the sensations. I'm actually often the more dominant one in bed, and prefer to choose positions and speed and what's going on myself... Somewhat of a proud power bottom, I suppose.

Come on! some of you bottoms love to get spanked by your man right

Top... because I don't like being fucked, mostly because of the pain (my first experience at 18 really, really hurt) and on the rare ocassion I do get fucked, I find I don't "last" - my hand is on my cock almost immediately and wanking myself to cumming just as fast. I don't some anal play but... top all the way otherwise - and like some have said, the fucking of a tight bum (esp one that's a bit "bubble butt" is awesome. Love being able to look into his eyes while I fuck, kiss him and wank his cock too....

...and I LOVE boys like you, Doug! Love a younger dude that power bottoms...