My wife gives a very good hand job but it involves a lot of time and preparation to set up (have an apointment, shower, etc.). If I jerk off, it doesn't involve a lot of time and I like to watch porn while I do the deed. Since I jerk off more times than I get a hand job, I guess I like jacking off better. The ideal situation would be my wife finding me watching porn and giving me a helping hand.

Definately the wife, but if I were honest any other bugger would be better than doing it myself. Not to say it's dull indulging in DIY but it's always better having another human being doing it for you. That said I remember a particular hand job from a one night stand that was, it has to be said absolutely awful. I was dying for it having fingered her for about 3/4 of an hour stood up and when she FINALLY got my cock out I wish she hadn't bothered. Gripped it like it was the handle on a bench press then proceeded to pull down so hard it nearly split my foreskin whilst going nowhere near the sweet spot. I had to relieve her of her duties and finish it myself.

when the ex caaught me online masterbating it opened a whole new world. she was already into watching me and doing herself at the same time, but it got much better. we did it together online with others and it was the best situation ever. she never said another word about me j/o again and wanted me to. life has its rewards

I don't remember ever having a bad handjob from anyone, female or male.
My wife gave terrific hand jobs. She always took her time, edging me for a long time. She could tell by my body movements and moaning how much I was enjoying what she was doing.
Given the choice, I would choose to get stroked by someone else over diy.

i prefer either getting one at a massage parlor, at a theatre with another guy, or myself,wife isn't bad but prefer the others first

I prefer having the wife help and both of us stroking at the same time. I usually take the bottom and she takes the head...then i cum in her palm and she uses it tos slowly rub me afterwards as lube.

Sounds great. We do it together too. She starts, and I finish while she strokes my balls and then milks the cum out.

I much prefer to wank my cock myself. Despite being shown numerous times my wife just can't get the grip or speed right so I usually end up taking over to finish it off myself anyway

I love when my girlfriend strokes me. It might have something to do with the fact that she's either shoving her tongue down my throat when she does or sticking her tits in my face while my hand is behind her grabbing her ass. I love jerking myself, but the perks that come when she does it makes it much nicer.

I prefer a handjob from my girlfriend much more than doing it myself. I love what she does when I cum by putting the cum in my mouth and what she misses she rubs all over my cock and balls.

If I want to go for hours, I do it myself. My wife makes me shoot quick and hard. The inability to control the stroking polishes me off great.

I prefer a woman stroke me as she watches my face or looks down at my cock while doing it. I don't mind jerking off by my self but like it when i have a woman to help out.

I would have to say that the most exciting is getting one from a stranger at the adult theater. Getting one from the wife cums second, she can make me edge for a very long time while she plays with my nipples or my ass and always catches my load in her mouth.

I totally prefer jackin myself to a handjob. My wife doesn't understand the value of edging unfortunately. It's all a big hurry for some reason.

True. I try to slow her down, but her goal is to make me cum as fast as possible.