I'm posting this here because I would like answers from guys and from gals too.

My wife tells me she had an ex boyfriend who could fuck her for two hours without cumming. During that time she would have ten to twelve orgasms. Well, even with cialis for daily use I can't compete with that. I cum and can fuck her for 30 minutes.

At the end of the two hours when she had enough she would get on top of him and squeeze her thighs together so he would cum.

Is this possible? Was the guy on something? Most guys I understand can't last 30 minutes inside a pussy anyway.

I would appreciate all your answers as I continually hear about this and even though my cock is pretty big, I keep hearing that "It's not the size, it's knowing how to use it."

I have been able to fuck for 2-3 hours...it takes me a long time to cum even when jacking off...30 mins at least...while i dont mind being able to sustain, when you want a quick nut or to throw a quick load in to some pussy it can be frustrating.

I dont do anything special, i can just naturally sustain. My dad mentioned a while back that he also takes a while to cum, so perhaps it is something genetic? Some guys just cume more quickly than others?

The guy might practice tantra. It could be that he just really knows how to pace himself.

I got the same problem as fkrchgo. I have diffulty cuming to order when I fuck. Sometimes I need to wank off when I'm close, then push my spunk back into my g/f's pussy. Guess it's because I get in so much wanking practice with my own hand that my cock only knows one way to cum easily.

I think all guys are different, some cum quick, for others it takes some time. I believe you can train yourself to hold back but no way can I last over about 20 minutes once my cock is inside a girls pussy! Cannot resist the urge to just let go! It would be great just to be able to do whay your gf wants and cum to order For girls it seems easy to have multiple orgasms if they are in a horny moood but this does not happen very often with my present gf ! So we just let go and bang!

OK, first I want to say kudos for lasting 30 minutes.

Secondly, yes it is possible. It is commonly referred to as retarded ejaculation. Often caused by anxiety and/or medication. Then of course there are those that have mastered it voluntarily i.e. Tantric Sex. And of course the involuntary masters.

When I was young, premature ejaculation was the bane of my life. But as I've got older, my masturbation sessions have got much, much longer, to such an extent that I rarely have sessions less than 2 hours. And I think that this is the reason that I can last for sometimes hours when having intercourse.
So. in a nutshell, it's all about self control!

I can last several hours or go in and tap it. For me it is a mental thing. I know what I and my lady want and I try to make it happen. Not to say this is an absolute, but works well for me. But if it has been more than two days she will get me off for my kicks and then I please her for long time.

If you can get your hands on some lidocaine cream, rub a little into the head of your penis about 15 minutes or so before sex. Make sure she doesn't get any on her or you'll be there all night.

It might be biological. Some people are just less sensitive or less sexual and take longer to cum. It's not fair to blame you because she once knew a guy who could fuck for two hours. 30 minutes is quite allot as it is.

What you can do to improve this is try jacking off about 20 minutes before you get in bed with her, or maybe cum a large number of times the day before. And if you feel you're about to cum, pull out and go down on her for a while, even until you go soft, then come back.

You might also tell her to stop being such a whiny bitch and that constantly being compared to the ultimate lover puts unfair strain on you. She should communicate her will in a positive way, and not just try to make you feel like a failure in bed.

I would not recommend desensitizing creams - I've had a really shitty experience with them and I've heard of worse.

I think biology has a lot to do with it. I too, have to work to cum both jacking and while fucking my wife. She has to talk dirty about her sucking another guy in front of me as we fuck in order to get me to pop quick. In fact, when I'm taking too long, that's EXACTLY what she does. "I wish I had a nice big, rock-hard cock to suck right now while you're fucking me like that. I want Dean's nice hard cock in my mouth so i can taste him as you fuck me, baby!" That's an example....then POP GOES THE WEASEL CUZ THE WEASEL GOES POP.

The longest fuck session was with this hot couple that invited me to their house. I would takes turns fucking them both. I went for about 6 hours before shooting my first load. Took a break and fucked them both again for 2 more hours and shot 3 more loads. I've always been able to fuck for 2-3 hours before blowing a wad though. I think the reason I was able to keep going for 8 hours is that these dudes were like GQ fucking cover models and I couldn't believe they wanted me to fuck them so I was fucking charged up! After 8 hours though, I don't think I was able to touch my cock for about 2 days! Hottest fuck session EVER!

i believe it depends on the person you are with my ex fiancee i could las 30 mins with and i got boring my girlfriend i could last hours and hours before cumming she was amazing and just kept me going

How do your gf/wives stay lubed so long? I like to stop and lick for a while but to go that long we would need some serious lube. I hate lube. Makes for nasty creampie eating and all the ones we try taste bad.

This is the best answer so far...but I will add that in my case, once I slide inside her puss, I'm either going to cum in two minutes or never. It's very difficult for me to blow if I make it past that first couple of minutes, and I almost always make it past that point. I like almost all of my stimulation on the shaft, and staying in a pussy too long makes my head over-sensitive and I never cum.

When I was getting my then-wife pregnant, I had to stroke myself to the edge, then quick put my cock inside her so I could nut in her pussy. I think a lot of it is psychological. I can jack off and shoot on her puss anytime, but cumming inside from just thrusting is very challenging for me.

Divorced now, and the same is true with the women I've fucked since...