siorac said:
Is any guy really totally str8? I think of myself as str8, almost all of my sexual experiences have involved women and when I'm masturbating I mostly fantasise about women. But I can also get off on some men and on good looking cocks (not too big and not bendy but cut or uncut, it's all the same). I think a man's penis is sometimes beautiful in a way that a woman's breasts are beautiful but cunts usually are not, exciting though they are. I get very aroused by seeing another man masturbating and imagining what male acquaintances look like in action. I don't think that's anything to do with gayness which implies an emotional and affective dimension as well as a physical one. Mutual masturbation between men is to me an affirmation of masculinity, sharing of a kind that you don't get with women no matter how close to them you are. I've had colleagues at work, married guys, who in retrospect I realise now I would have liked to have masturbated with had the opportunity presented itself. I think about them and what might have been sometimes when I masturbate.