I feel your pain here, I was popular as a friend but beyond that it just wasn't there, it didn't help that I was awkward and shy.

I wanked off 2 to 3 times a day growing up if I had a new porn mag that would double some days.

Lost my virginity at 16, but kept masturbating through all my relations, none of them had an issue with me enjoying myself, the only issue was that it was to porn, that was the biggest no no.

My wife is the same, she was shocked that I still masturbated after we met and that I still did it after we slept together. She is pretty cool with it though, she has no idea I wank online in cartoons and sites like this though (100% certainty that is a divorce). I have masturbated for her (and her pleasure) and she has in turn masturbated for me.

yes,when we start masturbating we can't wait to get our cocks in a vagina.we even wank over the thought of it.eventually we do,get married,children etc.but even married and having as much sex as we want,we still masturbate.I did and I'll bet you all still do.

I was at a party of married couples and it was quite loud with conversation . I asked a friend if he has masturbated since being married. He replied "more then ever". I thought it was funny as I only did it when away from my wife but after about 20 years of marriage I started jerking off whenever my wife went out and I had preplanned what porn to watch.

see,I told you so!

I always masturbated a lot, at least once a day, even when I was a kid. Being obsessed with sex, many times after the wife and I had sex, I would retire to a private space and get off again on my own. Fast forward to post retirement, where we are together pretty much 24/7, but left sex together behind many years ago, I still crave the orgasms, but very seldom have the right conditions to put on my favorite porn, get naked and pull one off.

Several years ago I was fortunate in finding a gay gentleman only about 20 minutes from home who loved giving me head and satisfying my sexual needs completely. He even taught me that giving was as exciting as receiving and that made our times together even more fun. Sadly he passed away a few years ago and I have not experienced another as wonderful since. So, presently I'm back to seeking those scarce private moments.

I have no sex toys thus far because (1. I'd probably be busted by friends or relation spotted entering/leaving a sex store. (2. If I bought online, it would show up on the credit card we share. Not good. (3. I don't know where I'd keep it anyway that it wouldn't be discovered one day, so back to the post retirement problem unless I find a sex starved senior bud like myself. Working on it.

First wet dream on my 14th birthday, and started masturbating that week. Peaked at age 16 on 3x a day, and then had sex at near 20. Married and had great sex for 30 years to menopause and the sex stopped dead.
Agreed with wife to give up the sex and was OK to masturbate as much as I needed. Been pulling myself off ever since, 25+ years.
Turned bi-curious about 7 or 8 years ago and now have HJs and BJs about once a week.
Did a self survey a few years ago and came uo with a figure of approx 6500 fucks and 6500 wanks so far.
I love my sex life as it is now. I cum when I want!

To jaknmwm, No need to feel like the odd man out. As a child of the 50s I was shy to a fault and though, well hung, (someone must have ratted me out from gym class showering) passed up more sexual experience offers by neighbor girls as a kid than most. By about 12 I was jacking, self sucking and staring at pics of naked women at every opportunity.

About the same time I was stricken with a terrible case of acne and sported the legendary "pizza face" as a result. This drove me farther back into a shell and then my Dad mistakenly informed me that masturbating was probably the cause of my acne. So now I was sure that everyone could see that I "over-masturbated" and I was pretty much destroyed socially.

It's amazing that I ever married, but as teens my wonderful wife to be was willing to overlook my complexion and even helped me masturbate occasionally before we started having sex. Sadly that demeanor was short lived.

Still jacking, still super horny. Nah, you're good. Join the crowd.