Hey guys, I'm curious to know if any other married guys have thoughts like this. I'm a complete masturbation addict, and have been since my teens. My wife has no idea that I jack off to porn, let alone that I'm completely chronic. I find myself fantasizing a lot about not being married so that I could just relax and spend all my time in front of the computer with my cock out, or living with a fellow addict, actually being able to be myself with someone, and encouraging each other to give in to the greatest feeling in the universe. Anyone else ever have such thoughts?

all the time

yes. sometimes think i should not have re-married after me & 1st wife divorced.

Sounds like you got married for some but not all of the wrong reasons? I have always enjoyed masturbation along with sex with my wife. It is a great way to relax and even promotes better sleep. Sometimes we enjoy masturbating together. I get myself off alone more now because my wife is not as easily aroused (i.e. sex actually becomes work) but I can't wish I was not married.
I have the advantage that I sometimes travel which means lots of time alone to masturbate.

Thanks for your responses. It's a tough one for me, because I do love her and we are a great match in so many ways, but I would ALWAYS rather masturbate than have sex with her, and I know that it's not because of who she is...I'd be this way with anyone. That's why I sometimes think a fellow addict would be my perfect match, although it wouldn't be an easy relationship to explain to my parents!

Wouldn't life be so much easier and much more enjoyable if we could just live our lives for who we are instead of being judged on everything!!

My god yes! I am soooooo tired of having to hide a huge part of who Inam from absolutely everyone I care about. What I wouldn't give to be able to feel close to someone who I could share this totally inescapable fact about myself with. I've tried to stop so many times, and it's just not going away.

By the way, if you have a photo of your wife please forward it to me. I am interested to see if I would enjoy stroking off on her photo..lol

Great post. I have often thought that I'd rather be single so I can jack off more. Like you, I love my wife, but sex with her is not as good as jacking off. Luckily, I've told her from our second date (when I jacked off in front of her) that I love masturbation and she doesn't care that I do it. She will join me sometimes as she loves masturbation as well, but not to my level.

Yeah, it is always better to be as open as possible if at all possible. I recently intruduced porn as part of our love making, now me and my wife masterbate each other while we watch, great!
Maybe you could try introducing the idea a little bit at a time?

Thanks, guys. I'm very, very hesitant about being open about it, because she's told me in the past that she's uncomfortable with it and almost considers it a form of cheating. And on top of that, it's not just an occasional thing with me, but a constant thing, and I don't think that's going to change.

Only constantly. Sharing and encouraging the JO addiction is such an attractive idea. I've been masturbating more or less since I was 8 or 9. Nothing ever has or will feel better, last longer or fulfill more desire for fantasy.

Like some others, I am fortunate that my wife enjoys my masturbation habit. She does not care if I do it alone, with her in bed or watching porn. She likes porn occasionally herself and enjoys watching me jerk off. Sometimes she helps with the jerking or rubbing my balls and ass.
I can often convince her that she should let me finish iin her mouth.
She is always soaked when I am done. Sometimes she will use her vibrator then or I get to lick her off.

This is us almost exactly. She doesn't know that I cam as much as I do though. She has jerked/sucked me a few times on cam but not often enough. She prefers to play in front of a live couple. Me, I go anyway I can.

I love having time alone to stroke. Wish I had a strokin buddy for a neighbor though. Would be awesome being able to hang out strokin all the time.