Seems there are a lot of us older, married guys who are thinking about taking it to the next level and finding a stroke buddy. Solo jacking, phone, cam, cyber, porn....they only go so far to satisfying that itch. Love sex with my wife, but I've really begun to crave some masculine interaction. Being naked, stroking hard cocks together, and helping each other cum would be intense "male bonding." Sharing that kind of intimacy with a bro would be incredible! If you're in the same mindset, I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on this and whether you think you'll seriously step out there and do it! I'm thinking about it big time but am nervous as hell at the prospect. Hard to find another decent, sane, safe guy. Other marrieds seem safest, but then there's the problem of where to go to play. Would love to hear other guys stories or thoughts who are in a similar situation!

I hear ya man....been thinking the same things. I want to do it..but I'm sure I'd be nervous as hell. Even thought about what it would be like to suck a cock too. Don't know how that plays into what your talking about.

Hey Mark, thanks for the post! Mostly I just want to touch and be touched for now, but who knows? We all know how our smaller heads have a mind of their own at times! Really want/need some naked buddy time, of that I'm sure!

Hey guys, i'm feeling the same way, been thinking about this or a while now but i'm really nervous about it. i have cammed with a guy a couple weeks ago and it was great and I came hard and fast. i'd love to find someone to jack with on a regualar basis and maybe take it to the next level, stroke him and him stroke me. but i know i'd be nervous as hell to meet up with someone.

I have been curious for a while and have had a couple of interactions. Would definitely like to do more, but it is difficult to find partners that you would want to be with or to have a place to meet. I also was very nervous and hesitant at first to touch a cock different from mine, but after a bit I found it very exciting. Anyway, I hope that I get another opportunity soon.

Str9mac, good to hear other str8 guys are thinking these things too. It's a big step, but I've gotten so horny for it I can hardly stand it. Would love to watch a guy as he gets close and know I was responsible!

I think you described me perfectly. Very curious about m2m contact and have been for a few years, but very apprehensive about catching something or getting caught. Would be fun to find another inexperienced married guy to stroke with, but like you said finding one you can trust or finding a relaxed place is tough. Want so bad to get naked and stroke with someone on a regular basis.

You can tell from the seven responses in less than an hour that there seems to be a whole lot of married guys like us who think about jacking with another guy. Yeah, I'm one of those. Never done a face to face but it sure fuels a wicked fantasy! I read each of the responses and it's reassuring to know that I'm not crazy. Love fucking my wife and have no problem getting it up, but when I'm off on a business trip out comes the computer and down go the shorts! Love a good hotel bate, but must be mind blowing to share such a taboo experience with another married guy who just gets it. I'm reluctant to jump in fearing I'll never get out, but I figure I'll give it a try when the opportunity presents itself and I feel completely comfortable with the situation.

Beachjackmark,we're on the same page man...i love sex with my wife but lately Ive really been thinking about getting to know what it's like with a guy. i do the same thing when i travel, i sit for hours looking at porn and stroking..i'd love to be able to do it with another guy.

Short answer-- definitely tempted but not going there (offline) unless somehow the wife is involved or accepts it

Don't travel as much as I used to, but used to hit the road frequently. Room service and an evening of hotel bate in front of the computer was my standard fare. Those were the times I especially thought about how much I'd like to share with another dude. I'm definitely ready to try it if/when I can find the right guy who I can trust and we can find the privacy to indulge. REALLY good to know I'm not the only married out there with these strong urges.

Guys you aren't the only ones that have those thoughts, desires and fantasy thoughts. I'm an older bi guy who had them, then chose to do something about it.... still married, she knows nothing. When I travel I'm always looking for a bud to drop by my hotel and have some fun with. Sure, there are risks - but there are also ways to find very safe buds who want the same thing. I belong to a yahoo group, ClosetShutM2M. The group is almost entirely married or str8 men who are in the closet about their sexuality. It just confirms for me that there are many of us around. Good luck to you if you choose to take any of this to the next level.

Wow! Thanks for sharing, buddy! I'm going to check out the yahoo group now. That sounds like exactly what I've been looking for.

nice post, i to "was" curious for many years until i finally acted on my dark urge for manplay. Love my family but feels go to have an occasional outlet for my urge to suck cock and get cummed on. I try to be smart discrete and safe but sometimes I just want to be a total cock sucking man whore! lol

I've had that fantasy for a long time. I'd love to suck another guy off and feel him squirt in my mouth and swallow his load. Still only a fantasy but who knows?...