I met someone on another website to meetup with, he suggested meeting at a hotel about half way between the two of us. It apparently offers a cheap hourly rate.

He seems to have used this place before.

Any words of caution or advice?

Mine worked out pretty good. It was an open invitation. I went with the first guy who showed up. He wanted to do certain things and he did them right away. I got a hand job, played with my balls, and some finger in my hole. I barely got to see him boned up. It was quikc.

sounds like it could be fun or it could be really dangerous..
why not meet him at a diner or someplace public first?..

sounds like fun. i've done it before and it's worked out more than it hasn't.
and let us know how it went!!!

...and do not forget to post photos.

I've never had a problem meeting anyone either. Unless you count the guy who chickened out and left. He didn't even get naked.

Had a couple of good meets in hotel rooms in the past and both went well, with wanking, sucking, arse play. If you're unsure meet in a bar first and djscuss your own limits aswell as his. I always say no pressure from either side and that seems to work. You can usually guage from furst meeting if its going to work out or not, but sometimes the nervousness adds to the fun of experimenting.

I've never done this but I fantasise about it. When I get to the room, he's already there to let me in. He pours himself a drink and tells me to get naked. I take my clothes off. He makes me turn around so that can see all of me and makes me bend over so that he can see my asshole. He's standing there sipping his drink while this is happening. I've got a big hard on now and I'm hoping he's going to masturbate me. But he tells me to pull my foreskin back and to stretch out on the bed face down with my cock up against my belly. I hear the rustle of his clothes being taken off and he climbs on my back pressing his nude body hard against me. His penis is jammed between us in the cleft between my buttocks. He starts to ride me, slowly at first and then quickening his thrusts until I simultaneously hear a low grunt and feel a rush of sperm squelching between our bodies.

I always insist on cam and/or pic first before meeting, preferably cam. Also, if you're not comfortable, do what someone else here suggested and meet in public first.

The bottom line is that you need to trust your instincts. If it doesn't feel right, don't follow thru on it. You'll never be 100% sure that he's safe and/or clean, but if I ever have a bad feeling about someone, I pass.

Thanks everyone, I'll let you know it goes.

Aside from the other things there are a few more that I always remember. Leave wallet, rings, jewelry, phones, anything of value in your car. If something goes down, at least they don't get anything of value and won't have your identifying information, money etc. Always best to be safe. IF you've chatted with him and seem to have a good idea about trust, this shouldn't be a big issue - but it never hurts to be careful with stuff.

Excellent, excellent advice. Whenever I visit the adult theater, i ALWAYS leave my wallet in the car, just in case. Wish I could leave my phone and keys there as well, but just cannot work that out.

great tips guys... setting up a second e-mail address to meet up with a bud today for j,o. session in ptown. Should be fun. thx

The advice of "if it feels off, get out" is the important one. There are lots of guys who really just want to get off with someone but there are creeps out there. If you get a bad vibe, better to get out. The worst that happens there is you go home and jack alone.

As I occasionally travel for business, I fantasized about have a JO bud meet up where I stay. Thanks for the thoughts. Maybe I'll get the courage some day.