very similar here as well, hard to find time to get off. nowhere near the sex life it used to be, actually using this time right now to get one in

yes,wife gave up sex about 6 years ago,but still gives me the odd handjob.the sex had diminished to once in a blue moon anyway.she was always great for sex,but I still needed my own time.now its all me!

I'm sorry to see misery loves company. Like most of the married guys here sex is something that's happens very rarely, my wife's a prude she even admits it,I have tried to make suggestions that might make it better but just bringing up the idea that there might be ways to make it better makes her self conscious and she gets quiet. Wish I had time to masturbate but she works at home so my only free time is when she goes to the store. She loves it when I eat her out and get her to cut but she thinks I should always chum in her so I don't get hand jobs and she doesn't give blow jobs. I love her so looking around isn't an option.

Yeah, sex in my house is a rarity these days, so I try and take advantage while she sleeps and sometimes in the mornings in my office before anyone else gets in to work, with kids it's very very rare I have the "house" to myself

I too love my wife so looking for some side puss is not an option and the porn is starting to get a little to routine for me these days. I find myself looking at the same ones over and over and cannot bring myself to pay for memberships to the amateur sites out there that offer amateur submitted movies. I did many years ago and discovered those same member only movies were out there on the free sites anyways. BUT it's better out here in google land than it used to be!

Same here, nothing for years she totally went off it. Thankfully I've always loved porn and wanking so I just keep at it.

She knows I wank, not how often though and to what extent. I usually leave it until she goes out, then it is a visit to J-in-C then a bit of porn before the session. As she has gone out then no disturbance so it could be a greased finger up the ass, camera on a tripod or just loads of lube and spunk!

Sometimes if I'm really desperate and she hasn't gone out I'll just tell her I'm going to exercise my prostate. She knows that 5 ejaculations a week could help keep the prostate healthy, no guesses who told her that.

She buys my tissues for the drawer beside the bed, and when I order lube I always open the package in front of her, and I'll leave it on the coffee table until I next go upstairs.

Haven't got the nerve to pull it out in front of her and pull away though.

My wife was never really much into sex, but over the last few years she has had some medical issues so now it is even worse. I have always secretly jacked off to porn, magazines and now the internet. I used to feel bad about it but I don't as much anymore because at least I have some kind of a sex life.
I know she doesn't feel well a lot, (its non life threatening) but she doesn't seem at all concerned about my needs.

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I don't masterbate that much since the wife's puss is always wet and ready to fuck.

It's a little different for me. I married a 17 to virgin 42 years ago. Over the years I have convinced her to try quote a variety of, well let's just say experiments. She was never a fan of variety but indulged me.

However, now is different. She won't do variety. Still wants to fuck a lot but just plain suck, finger, and fuck.

I still need my variety so Jack a lot.

She doesn't know, cause it would hurt her feelings.

at your age now we were all in the same situation.come back when she's been through the menopause or some of older ones in 20 years.no criticism,just preparing you!

Just about everyday. Sometimes a quickie. Sometimes I edge a while.

Life is hectic and finding the time to have fun alone is difficult. When I get time to myself though I tend to Jerk off binge and have 3-4 in a day. Usually c2c or posing for photo requests and chatting about the pics on Unsee.cc
The older I get the less porn is attractive.