def agree with everyone.. would be cool to find a regular bud to get off with....hang drink some beer watch porn jack...if anyone is around the ct area hit me up

I have tried. Very close with folks from Craigslist. Every single one has stood me up. You know how much courage it takes to knock on a door? Then no answer?

I am 40, in good shape, reasonably good looking, pretty average, a family man sort of guy.

Anyone else have that happen?

Been there a few times myself. I used to travel quite a bit for work, and always wanted to try jerking with a bud. Often checked CL in the cities I was visiting and also often posted myself. Usually I wouldn't find anyone that clicked. Every one was a flake or wanted to do much moe than JO. so I rarely followed through, but on 2 different occasions I thought I found a good match and emailed my room number to someone I was chatting with, and then sat there nervous as hell, but also really excited that I finally had the nerve to follow through. I would sit he waiting, watching porn, edging, waiting for a new friend to watch me finish in a powerful orgasm. And both times I sat there for hours and no one showed. So disappointing. I wonder if ill ever get the opportunity for my first JO buddy....

I think it would be fun. Cumshots are pretty much the best part of porn for me along with watching a great set of tits bouncing up and down so just knowing someone one is cumming with you and next to you while watching women get covered in cum sounds super hot and can't wait to try it with some erection pills and fleshlights so we can cum like crazy.. Also the idea of sharing toys and sloppy seconds sounds fun as well.

I've been lucky enough to of met another married guy on a site who lives close by. We have hooked up in person and on cam. It's more fun to look at porn and stroke with like minded friends.

Feel free to PM and say hello.

I loved JO fun with my married buddy ! - str8 married regular guy here, but so much fun to have just good guy to guy jo fun .. I need another JO bud .. anyone near Rochester NY ???

SYRACUSE here

Anybody have any safe place suggestions where to jerk off with a bud. Hotel and house are not an option. Also not interested in an adult book store. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

More often than not married guys are afraid to meet. I have had many contact me but have only ever met one. With the rest its all talk. Its something I would enjoy as an ongoing thing with the right person. Usually gay guys are all about meeting but dont share my sexual interests.

If any of you are interested I put together a map of guys looking for a jacking buddy. Most of the listings are from jackinchat but there are a few from other sources. I'd be happy to add you to the map. Just tell me what location you want (zip/post code works), and a brief description of what you are looking for.
Here's the map: jackinbuds.redlighthost.com

I have had a couple of guys over to jerk off with me in front of the wife but nothing regular. would be cool but so hard to find.

holy shit that's awesome!

once did it inside a tank with a mate
great fun! lol

thanks for all the stories and about CL and about people not showing up. I find having company makes it more fun, but I've only done this while chatting in yahoo IM.