hey guys, i am pretty confused right now, i have a friend, who has a girlfriend, and when ever we are alone or with another friends, he keeps talking about sucking my cock, jerking it, me fucking him, he keeps asking me how big my dick is, and he tells me his fantasy, he told me he loves porn lol and has been caught by his dad, and im not sure where we stand, but what should i do, i mean i would definitely do all those things with him, what should be my next move. and i would also like to mention, he jokes about everything i just said, and air strokes me as a jokes lol.

Next time you are together and he starts into that and asks you how big you are say "take a look" and pull down your pants. you will then see if he is serious

haha that would be so hot, and if he agrees to do stuff then it would be great, but i dont want to ruin my friendship with him, so im pretty stuck, i mean talk to him about this stuff and majority of the time i have to cover myself lol.

Does his girlfriend know about all of this? How does she feel about it if she does?

No, She doesnt, and if she did i dont think it would matter, she thinks hes always joking.

I agree with the earlier post. When he asks about your cock, call him on his bluff and show it to him. It will do one of two things... It will show him that you are willing to joke around as much as he OR it will allow him the opening he wants to actually suck you. It might not lead to anything right then but he will be thinking about it afterwards. If he is serious about playing he will bring it up again and then you're off and running.

Go for it! Let us know how it goes.

I once made a "pass" at a friend but he just blew it off as a joke and nothing was ever said about it again. I wish it had gone differently because I would have sucked him off for sure.

Hey Im from Toronto as well. Why dont you let me suck you off for a practice run.lol

Hmmm... How about you do a little manscaping then mention how you took a little too much off. If he inquires, you can take it from there. Completely innocent.

"I mean I would do all those things with him definitely."

Now your buddy has said more than once he wants to suck you and other stuff...Since you want it, just suggest a time and place for this to happen...Believe me, no adult guy tells his buddy over and over again he wants to suck, jerk and get fucked by him unless he is serious, i don't care how much of a joker he is...some things guys don't joke about...

I agree take it a bit further when you are alone with the guy somewhere private. Just see how far he is prepared to go seeing each others cocks is a starting point. The problem is that it could change your friendship if he is just teasing and doing it when in company of other guys. Just call his bluff when you are alone with him . Best of luck it could be an opportunity missed Best of luck !

You nailed it in one mate! I agree 100%. This guy ain't joking! So yep, call his bluff and then stand by to receive! lol

I have a friend who does similar stuff. Talks about jacking off and sucking cock and such. I called his bluff once and pulled out my hard cock and jacked off while we were watching porn. He didn't do anything. Then we were sharing a hotel room on a trip and I jerked off in front of him twice, he watched me cum and cheered me on, but didn't do anything. He's got a big cock, but I guess he's just shy. Can't get him to do anything with me.

I can't see the problem. If you both want to do it then get on with it. I enjoyed my youthful wanks with other boys.

As a str8 dude reading this I would say he wants to do all those things. If a buddy of mine said that to me more than once I would be annoyed, but that is me. I say go for it and if gives you a hard time or says anything, I would respond with dude you were the one that kept asking to suck my cock.

I'm a woman. However here's my take. Look him straight in the eye, grab his cock through his jeans and ask him what he really wants to do with you. If he doesn't speak but his cock gets hard stroke him through his jeans and then ask him again. Call his bluff. Maintain a poker face throughout. Keep asking. Hold your cards close.
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