I'd really like to get one of these (still trying to get wife's approval), but don't know what kind of insert to get. Any recommendations?

Just start with the regular insert.

Or scroll down for the threads on this exact same topic.

I like the wonder wave.

I got the wonder wave and the speed bump

I purchased a FL with the speed bump insert and find that it has a controlled action but I have modified it a bit as another guy on this site suggested. He used an "O" ring to increase the suction. I simply covered the end of the FL with plastic film and re-screwed the cap in place. The suction is increased ten fold and gives your cock a tremendous jolt as you reach orgasm. Another site that has a lot of information regarding the FL is Gay Torrents. The web site information is [url]http://www.gaytorrents.net/.

For the info about the FL, go to Erotica, and the topic is Fleshlight, does anybody use this thing? The last date I saw with info was Nov 7,2006. You may have to advance a few pages to find the right page with the information. Then of course there is the FL web site as shown here on J&C

What is the best lube to use with fleshlight?

From what I recall another J&C saying, Suave hair conditioner really does the job and inexpensively too. I picked some up at the drug store the other day, used it and now I will not use anything other than that. I rinse the insert out with hot water after each use and dry it thoroughly. The top part does become sticky from what I'm not sure but with a saucer of corn starch, dip the insert top into the saucer and it is completely ready for another jack off session. I transfer some of the Suave conditioner into a little squirt bottle so that the lube gets straight into the insert and not running all over the place. A dab on your cock and your all set to go.

Thanks for the input. What about the type of opening? Mouth or vagina? Does it make a difference?

Can you get the clear insert only when ordering more than one insert?

Can I jump in here and say that I would totally love to watch anyone fucking a Fleshlight on cam for me.......thanks!

Suave seems a bit risky in terms of damaging the insert or your privates. It's not meant for jacking. I use Astroglide in my FL.

Mostly it's a visual thing -- do you want to look down and see a mouth around you, labia, etc. I've heard that the mouth is slightly tighter at the opening, though. The butt orifice is VERY tight.

secretsecret, send me a pm when you get the chance. I am willing to help you. :-)

Best lube for the Fleshlight is my own precum

I have the wonder wave ice lady model, and it gives me mind blowing orgasms. It's almost TOO intense. Next one I buy will be a speedbump butt. But I've had my wonderwave for three years now and about a thousand orgasms in it, and I've never tired of it.