Hey guys, I've got a new jackin bud and I have a hard time reaching orgasm while he works my cock, he's an awesome stroker and keeps me right on the edge for a very long time but I can never seem to fall off the edge and blow my load... I'm used to edging when I cum alone but he's got a tight schedule and needs me to cum fast... any advice?

it's the same as getting used to anybody working your dick, just takes time for both of you to learn your triggering cues. At least that was my experience the first time I had a girl suck me off. If you can relax more it might help. The more you try to will it out the more difficult it is.

How about when he gets you to the edge you take over just past the point of no return and let him take over for the last bit?
I chubbed up a bit just thinking about that myself actually.

That's actually how we did it last night but he still felt like he didn't get me off, that I did it...

Not everybody cums that quickly or easily. If both are having a good time and enjoying its all good.

I definatly have an awesome time with him but he really wants to make me cum

Keep trying. sometimes the best time can be had practicing something. Especially if it involves someone playing with your cock!

It takes me a long time to cum, even when I masturbate. Maybe work yourself to where you're going to cum then let him finish. I've done that many times.

Ask him to use his other hand on your balls cup and pull them.
A finger in my ass and a prostate massage puts me over the edge when im so close. Nothing wrong with telling him what you want.

i absolutely LOVE edging..... slow stroking it till u almost cumm, then backing off a bit and then starting over.....not only delays the orgasm but also heightens the sensation....

hey buddy - I've had the same problem as well. Remember that your cock is very used to the way you handle it, his grip and speed and touch is very different. It may take a bit of "work" and practice to really experience him getting you off. Both of you need to relax - you want to cum, he wants you to and both of you are probably focusing too much on that, rather than just the pleasure. Honestly, when I learned to lay back and enjoy the touch and feel of a buddy jackin me off it was the best... not as good as oral, but really good. yes, it took some time.... and yes, we had to work at it a bit... but it's worth it. One thing you might try is coaching him on exactly what you like - speed, tight or loose grip, where do you like to focus your attention on your cock when you stroke? All of those things may help. However, learning to get off to other techniques is also way cool.... just enjoy the pleasure! More than glad to talk about this more if you wanna PM me.

oh and by the way... that's one very NICE cock!

Have you given him suggestions about what to do? Like, working on your sweet spot. jiggling your sack, fingering your hole? Also what about bringing some toys into play...cockrings or vibrators. Make it something different for you that excites your manparts!

I asked him to work my hole... he's not into it lol... he insists a cockring will make it worse and isn't comfortable with me havin a buttplug up my ass while he's workin my cock... and I've givin him direction and he manages to keep me right on the edge but can't tip me over without my help...

What about attention to your sweet spot or groove? Maybe the fact that he is not into stroking your hole or playing with a buttplug is cooling you down a little. That can make it tougher to focus on what the other guy is doing to you...and of course when you take your meat into your own hands...you know exactly what to do. What about nip play or ball play? What "kink" might he be into?

He plays with my balls the whole time actually... doesn't really do much for me... we're still working on comfort levels and things... we'll get it eventually... thanx for the input... more is always welcome

Glad to try to help out. I've gone through most of your manparts. Are you generally buck naked when he stokes you, so he can rub your inner thighs, etc? Also, you might try watching some hot porn that has a lot of good cum shots....always inspires me for a good shoot. Maybe that will inspire your cum to squirt out when you want to push it over the edge!