Anyone else agree with me here? My wife left me for another guy quite a few years ago. At first I felt angry, just thinking of them fucking...then it made me hard and I found myself wanking over the thought....and I rediscovered the joy of masturbation. I had a few dates but nothing could equal the sheer pleasure of self pleasure. Now I make certain I wank 2/3 times a day, usually over internet pics and vids. I chat with a few guys about their wives and find that a turn on....no doubt about it, masturbation keeps me totally satisfied

No.. I am divorced and love to jerk, but i like to go out and meet women have fun with friends and , try to get laid as much as I can. Dont give up bro or you may start creeping people out.. just saying

I totally understand where your coming from. It was the best thing that happened to me! It's been 10 years and my life is so much more simple now. And a Hell of a lot less stressful!

Thanks for that...began to think I was a bit out of line!!!!

My divorce was an act of freedom. I could be naked and jackoff when I wanted. I could have women over and fuck!! Again when I wanted!! It lead me to a great woman!!!

last time i divorced i sukd some cock,fukd her and cum on her face.

WTFis wrong with you people? only one page of comments? and its under Masturbation->ForHim->??? Really, I bet half the men on this site are here because their wife (ok, half of the married men on this site) are here because their wife's stopped fucking, lost interest, became asexual what ever.
I dont deserve to be locked out of having a healthy sex life with a woman. I go to bed every night and my wife lies there, doesnt respond to my advances, avoids my touch. I ve talked to hear about it, asked her to she a doctor, pleaded with her to get help. She laughs it off, says she doesnt have any interest, blames old age (she in her 50s). She is content to never have sex ever again. And here I am on this masturbation site, like jerking off will solve my problem, its a bandaid on a very serious problem. I guess the only solution is to divorce her, we still have one child living at home so I will wait until shes off to college (next fall). I still care about my wife, she is a good person despite her issues but I can not see myself jerking off alone in the dark as a solution to my problem. I hate that i am on this site, i hate that I have no one to be intimate with.

My same situation exactly only my kid has 4 years till college.

I do enjoy masturbating and don't want to have sex everyday. But 2 to 3 times a week would be nice. Wish the wife shared my kinks and fetishes too.

Most women are good to look at, feel good to fuck and get off with, but beyind that not much else. I think it's different when you're younger as you chase tail left, right and centre, but when you're older, you don't want/need/have time for the hassle. You just want to get off and fulfill the need. Hence, why a lot of middle aged and older guys end up having fun with other guys. They understand that it's an act of pleasure and release. Who needs the extra shit? I've never been married, don't have kids or any ties. Had a few long term relationships that ended shitty, so at my age, I'm not really interested anymore...and I can jerk off when I want

I cannot understand your point of view, and have a lot of sympathy with it. Sex is an important part of relationships / marriage but also, and probably more so when you get older companionship is also a factor. This probably why a lot of men stay in sexless marriages I guess.

Men and women are just not compatible on so many levels. Men and women, together, produce offspring, that is the be all and end all. There are obviously some marriages that are great, lots of sex involved, a good bond and companionship, but the majority of marriages/relationships are just for convenience and/or because people are afraid of change and 'make do' with their lives. Very sad, really.

it's a pity!

shydick, would it be possible for you to have a relationship outside of your marriage to satisfy the obligations your wife agreed to, but refuses to meet? If so, then you might propose this to your wife, if your sexual needs are no longer of any concern to her. This is not as uncommon as you may think. A wife that can't or just won't have sex with her husband can allow him to get some sexual satisfaction and they can stay happily married. If you think about why married men would stray, it's hard to imagine it's because their wife gives them too many orgasms.