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Tired of the wife playing games..need my fill and alot of us do...told her already that I was going to find it elsewhere..and she is fine with that..love JO..sharing pics..and lots of new and exciting things..feel free to share if your tired of not getting what you want and need..she knows that I am really getting turned on by cock [email protected]
i can relate to you. I have not had sex in over three years. Wife is not interested. Trying to find a female in northern california
looking for a women to play with.
I can relate as well. Haven't gotten any in almost a year. Would like to find some side action as well. I'm livin in the Midwest.
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Add me to the no sex wife group. She found "religion" and like a year and a half ago, decided that everything we had done sexually that was not missionary style sex, was wrong and dirty and that "she never really enjoyed it but did it for me". Funny I remember her cumming multiple times when we did those dirty things...I mean she was into exhibitionism, toys, masturbation, being watched, spanking/bondage, etc...and then..poof, it was gone...and I was the asshole who seemed to be miffed because it stopped so suddenly without my having any input. She reduced sex to giving her a back rub and occasionally jacking me off or maybe giving me a fuck..but I got so pissed off and bored, I decided to just stop everything and she has been fine with that. So I feel your pain..and enjoy my jacking better anyway
It's definitely not a competition, but it's been at least five years. Maybe the same old story, she gained a lot of weight, basically lost interest in everything. I work at home and can jack off at least once a day to all the porn I want. I think I like it this way better.
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If you accept it and stay you shouldn't complain either.. just saying...
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JohnnyPump said:
Tired of the wife playing games..need my fill and alot of us do...told her already that I was going to find it elsewhere..and she is fine with that..love JO..sharing pics..and lots of new and exciting things..feel free to share if your tired of not getting what you want and need..she knows that I am really getting turned on by cock [email protected]
Tired of the wife playing games..need my fill and alot of us do...told her already that I was going to find it elsewhere..and she is fine with that..love JO..sharing pics..and lots of new and exciting things..feel free to share if your tired of not getting what you want and need..she knows that I am really getting turned on by cock [email protected]
Yeow!! I can relate to all that. I don't know what the fuck is wrong with some of these women, but at this point, I don't really care. I enjoy jacking and have started camming with a couple other guys and it's been way more fun. I haven't yet, but I really want to go "live" and suck and fuck with another guy. My cock gets like a rock just thinking about it!
And I thought I was almost alone. In the past 8 years my wife and I have had sex once. What a drag this has been. She says she doesn't want to any more. Thankfully my hand still works and brings me much pleasure.
Without jackin what is there?
I was in a sexless relationship once that I chalk up to my girlfriend's (religiously-driven) guilt and self-consciousness. Thankfully, I got out of that and - like Cozchee said: "If you accept it and stay you shouldn't complain either". I had to come to terms with who I am and what I want; deciding that I'm fully hetero. But, if you're open with your wife and willing to try, maybe she could go for a threesome to help you explore your sexuality?
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A solution to sexual satisfaction may be found in getting rather than giving. Men have powerful regular needs. Women may not understand or accommodate that. But if sexuality is all about "me" then every time you have sex in some form you will probably be drinking salt water and only get more thirsty. Nothing will ever satisfy for more than a moment.
Try pouring your heart and life into providing great sex to your wife--the way she likes it. Then keep at it. Finally see if you are not more satisfied sexually than you ever dreamed possible.
I can vouch that this works as I have been a taker and a giver and have learned that giving result in 1000000 X better results than a sexuality based on "getting."
Also, my experience was that when my wife found religion (Christianity) she got free of a lot of misinformation, confusion, past hurts, etc. and our sex life shot out the end of a canon in pure awesomeness. Does that analogy work? Well anyway it became amazingly better.
Would be crazy to go back to my old, blind, selfish ways.
Try pouring your heart and life into providing great sex to your wife--the way she likes it. Then keep at it. Finally see if you are not more satisfied sexually than you ever dreamed possible.
I can vouch that this works as I have been a taker and a giver and have learned that giving result in 1000000 X better results than a sexuality based on "getting."
Also, my experience was that when my wife found religion (Christianity) she got free of a lot of misinformation, confusion, past hurts, etc. and our sex life shot out the end of a canon in pure awesomeness. Does that analogy work? Well anyway it became amazingly better.
Would be crazy to go back to my old, blind, selfish ways.
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TickleButton said:
A solution to sexual satisfaction may be found in getting rather than giving. Men have powerful regular needs. Women may not understand or accommodate that. But if sexuality is all about "me" then every time you have sex in some form you will probably be drinking salt water and only get more thirsty. Nothing will ever satisfy for more than a moment.
Try pouring your heart and life into providing great sex to your wife--the way she likes it. Then keep at it. Finally see if you are not more satisfied sexually than you ever dreamed possible.
I can vouch that this works as I have been a taker and a giver and have learned that giving result in 1000000 X better results than a sexuality based on "getting."
Also, my experience was that when my wife found religion (Christianity) she got free of a lot of misinformation, confusion, past hurts, etc. and our sex life shot out the end of a canon in pure awesomeness. Does that analogy work? Well anyway it became amazingly better.
Would be crazy to go back to my old, blind, selfish ways.
A solution to sexual satisfaction may be found in getting rather than giving. Men have powerful regular needs. Women may not understand or accommodate that. But if sexuality is all about "me" then every time you have sex in some form you will probably be drinking salt water and only get more thirsty. Nothing will ever satisfy for more than a moment.
Try pouring your heart and life into providing great sex to your wife--the way she likes it. Then keep at it. Finally see if you are not more satisfied sexually than you ever dreamed possible.
I can vouch that this works as I have been a taker and a giver and have learned that giving result in 1000000 X better results than a sexuality based on "getting."
Also, my experience was that when my wife found religion (Christianity) she got free of a lot of misinformation, confusion, past hurts, etc. and our sex life shot out the end of a canon in pure awesomeness. Does that analogy work? Well anyway it became amazingly better.
Would be crazy to go back to my old, blind, selfish ways.
Dear Ticklebutton: You'll forgive me, but I think you mixed up what you are trying to say, starting with the first sentence. Didn't you mean to say or suggest that one should concentrate on "giving" rather than "getting"? I mention this because that surely seems to be the point of the rest of your posting; that it is the "selfish" concern with "getting" that is the problem, and all can be cured by "giving". You also seem to overlook the significant point that you can't provide sex to your Wife the "way she wants it" if she doesn't want any. You know...the old "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink" kind of thing. Have I missed something here?
I love giving facials and having sex with my wife while she wears high heels, BUT she HATES facials and wearing shoes! She is into BDSM and I have no desire to participate in that. Go figure!
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I have no wife or girlfriend...never have, in fact. So, I am REALLY not getting what I want. 
It's must really suck to have a wife/gf, and want to be faithful. But they aren't interested in Sex.
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