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ladude25 Amateur Jackinchatter

334 posts since 2016-01-31
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Depends on how long I have been looking at porn or how long I have been edging. I can cum in 5 min or I can edge for 6 hours. It all depends on my mood and how horny I am.
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Bimike1962 Amateur Jackinchatter

280 posts since 2017-06-27
62 year old curious male from Eastern Washington
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I'm about the same as you. If i am not turned on it takes a few o load up, but i can edge for hours, either stroking of fucking.
I want to cum with you!
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Wow... she should appreciate how lucky she is right now.

There are women out there who WISH they could get
knocked up for lengthy periods of time and all they
ever get is a quick bump and a spray.

Dman said:
Before I learned how to edge I would typically last about 10-15 minutes with fucking or hand job or combo of both. My sessions alone now last anywhere from 3 to 12 hours. Fuck sessions with the wife now stretch to well over an hour. She literally has to pound my fully lubed cock hard for several minutes to get me even close to orgasm. She gets bored, pissed-off and worn out if I take too long to cum. Wants me to talk to my doctor about it. I think not!
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Dman Professional Jackinchatter

2099 posts since 2015-06-14
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Mazinga said:
Wow... she should appreciate how lucky she is right now.

There are women out there who WISH they could get
knocked up for lengthy periods of time and all they
ever get is a quick bump and a spray.


To be fair, she is an attentive un-selfish lover that attends to my every desire. As I do for her.
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HOURS!!!
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dickguy Professional Jackinchatter

1678 posts since 2009-05-14
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Very early on with sex with my wife, she learned on that I would most likely cum, within minutes of getting her warmed up. Then she learned that if she would jerk me off and make me cum about 10 minutes before fucking her, I would last a lot longer. I got the pleasure of her stroking me, of my cumming, of her sucking me off and swallowing my first load. We learned that I could get hard again soon and last about 15 minutes before I came again in her.
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Earlybird Amateur Jackinchatter

347 posts since 2011-07-10
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secretsecret said:
When planning on having a cyber or cam session with someone, does it ever seem important to clarify before hand how long it takes you to cum? For example, if it's your first time with someone, and you expect it to maybe take 10-20 minutes of interacting, do you think they should be told that it always takes you 2 hours to cum? I mean not everyone can always be expected to put in that kinda time right? Especially if it's your first time together and they have no idea how long you take....Thoughts??


Never done the cam thing. Last time I masturbated with other guys was back in my grade-school/junior-high days. Regarding how long it takes me to cum - well, that depends. I learned to control my orgasms at a very early age. I can usually get off in a couple minutes if I wish, or make it last for an hour or more. That said - I find it very uncomfortable to edge for too long. My cock starts to hurt if I stay hard for an hour or so without reaching orgasm.

Regarding refractory period - if I'm horny/aroused, I can usually be ready to go again as soon as my erection subsides.
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sureshoot Professional Jackinchatter

1245 posts since 2011-10-17
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onlybyhand Skilled Jackinchatter

765 posts since 2015-05-21
77 year old curious male from United Kingdom
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Earlybird said:
Never done the cam thing. Last time I masturbated with other guys was back in my grade-school/junior-high days. Regarding how long it takes me to cum - well, that depends. I learned to control my orgasms at a very early age. I can usually get off in a couple minutes if I wish, or make it last for an hour or more. That said - I find it very uncomfortable to edge for too long. My cock starts to hurt if I stay hard for an hour or so without reaching orgasm.

Regarding refractory period - if I'm horny/aroused, I can usually be ready to go again as soon as my erection subsides.


In my case a large factor in how long until climax is my rate of stroking my foreskin up and down my cock. Other factors include how stimulating is what I am looking at and how often I have recently climaxed. My rate can vary from a few strokes a minute to probably up to 200/min.
I learned there will a particular pace in a masturbating session where my cock is in continuous sub-orgasmic pleasure but never going to climax until and unless I deliberately increase the pace of stroking.
The male nurse masturbation therapist told me the explanation for the uncomfortable even painful climaxing after prolonged edging was due to engorgement distension of networks of small blood vessels inside the pelvis. Apparantly a medically recognised problem in both men and women where sexual relief when sexually aroused is not obtained or not allowed. He said for example that some celibate religious people were given special permission by a superior to masturbate (under supervision to avoid excess) on medical grounds.
Up to about 60 years I needed to fully climax once or twice a day to avoid possible climax discomfort after prolonged edging . In more recent years I csn tolerate edging without productive climax for several days,
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Interesting info! Nice to know the situation recognized medically.
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jstambau1941 Novice Jackinchatter

9 posts since 2018-04-16
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I can't edge. longest I remember is about 20 minutes and that was not easy. usually less than 5 minutes. jacked twice yesterday and both times was about 2 or 3 minutes.
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Mastieman Amateur Jackinchatter

137 posts since 2015-08-27
52 year old heterosexual male from New Zealand
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I once tried to see how quickly I could cum. I started by getting horny and erect. Never touching my cock at all.

I watched some porn and got really worked up. I then got my stop watch ready and started pumping. I lasted 26 seconds!

Otherwise I can usually go for about 20 minutes of normal stroking.

Finally if I try and edge and goon out then my sessions last a couple of hours.
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joboxer Novice Jackinchatter

61 posts since 2007-09-01
47 year old curious male from chicago
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yeah.. luv all the edging talk;
I think I timed my quickest cum at 2 minutes; not enuf time to get some precum flowing but still a good load; but regularly try to clear the calendar for some long edging time; 4 to 6 hours is fantastic.
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soundr Amateur Jackinchatter

179 posts since 2017-06-22
74 year old male from AZ
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Way too long anymore.
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jnewman Skilled Jackinchatter

999 posts since 2018-01-02
73 year old heterosexual male from ireland
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I've always edged since I started wanking over magazines,I would give the girl a right good stroking,stopping before the next girl got the same.having wanked myself through the magazines,I would go back and finish myself off over usually the biggest tits.that was then,and usually lasted about 30 mins.
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