Hey guys. I've always considered myself a straight male who just enjoys jerking off with other dudes once in a great while. But a few months back I went to a circle jerk where there were four other guys. The dude sitting next to me ended up sucking me and while he was doing it he slipped a finger in my ass. I did NOT intend for any of that when I went there; I was pretty boned up watching the porn so I sort of let it happen.
My question is have any other guys had this kind of thing happen before or am I a little more gay than I ever realized?

I wouldn't necessarily concern yourself with labels, just focus on the having fun! As for doing more than you might've planned/intended, been there and done that and I know a few other people who've done similar. You just went with the flow and it sounds like you had a hell of a time.

In contrast i've also heard lots of cases of people thinking they were up for something and then bolting when push came to shove.

hey man

Being gay is so much more than an act or something you enjoy. Sure, is it considered something gay? Maybe - but remember, we're sexual beings, created to enjoy sex. some of us are more open to being sexual with both genders. Others are not interested/willing at all. It really is your call, if you enjoyed it and are open to something like that again, then maybe you'll have to think about what you're into sexually... many of us enjoy sexual things with both men and women, society says that is wrong and shouldn't be. We're not all in a box buddy, we all have different likes/dislikes. Bottom line - if you enjoy it, go for it. While I've not had that exact thing happen in that way, I have done this..... and if you get a finger near your prostate while you're stroking, watch out... If you'd like to chat about any of this, feel free to pm me man.

How did the others present react by the way?

Well actually they pretty much stopped paying attention to the porn movie and gathered close to watch and jerk while I was getting my blowjob. It felt good and was hot in the moment with all the guys watching, but again later I was thinking to myself 'what the fuck did I just do?'

when your hard and horny and some one is willing to suck you off. doesn't matter male or female, your going to enjoy getting sucked off.

hey man,

Just so you know... as a bi-guy several times over the years I have walked out saying, what the fuck did I just do? I think many many men have said the same thing over choices we've made when all worked up sexually and horny.

Ha ha, sounds tremendous. Did you come? Would you do it again?

I've always wanted to participate in a circle jerk, but it's just never come up in life. sigh

looking at your cock pic DkJones, i think i would have had to suck on it too

Lol. Glad you like it jobud

I never considered myself gay as I don't have any romantic interest in men. But I sure as hell enjoy sex with them, probably more than with women. There is just less emotional BS that goes along with it. Men don't expect flowers or a nice dinner. As long as they cum, it's all good.

I think labeling someone is stupid. We are all different, and that's good.

There is just less emotional BS that goes along with it. Men don't expect flowers or a nice dinner. As long as they cum, it's all good.

SloStroker - how many times have I said that! Getting off with a bud is just that, getting off. No need to perform, spend money, make sure it's perfect or be careful where the cum lands... it's just raw, manly stuff. Not work, just two guys who understand all the equipment, maybe watch some born, have a beer naked and just relax and enjoy the moment.

That's how i found my JO buddy. After many times watching porn together, he saw how hard and pent up i was and said that if i wanted, he would very much like to suck me off. Well i'm very Str8 but was very horny. So i let him. Since then we've done a little more and a little more. We have been stroking and sucking for 10 yrs now. Great times! Its not a gay thing...its a bud thing.

I have never been in a circle jerk although I've had sex with several men. I agree with my friend, Slo Stroker, lables don't mean anything. I've known I was bi before I heard the word. Love to suck dick, love to have men cum on my ass, and will fuck any woman not too fat or gross. Now that is BI!!!