Are we still in Junior High School here?

I wouldn't call it gay in the slightest. I'd love to jack off with a guy but not sure I'd go much further. Curiosity does get to me though. I often think about sucking a cock but still, wouldn't say thats gay. I'm curious and adventerous.

I seriously doubt it.

Wow, this is still a topic?

I gave up labeling myself and others a long time ago. Enjoy what you enjoy and don't worry about what it is called. If you're not hurting yourself or others, go for it.

Excellent reply, Evanwired!

Once again, let me say: You are only gay IF you define yourself as gay. No one but you has the right to define who you are. Why are people so paranoid about this?

guy's jacking off together isn't gay but I couldn't be in the same room with all that cock yum yum

Exactly!

I don't believe guys jacking off together is gay at all. However, I know guys who think if you go grocery shopping with another guy it's "gay."

What I love about some of the comments here is that if labels don't matter and we should all give up using them, why are some guys so freaked out at the idea of being thought "gay" as they wrap their hand around another guy's dick? Oh yeah, maybe its because "str8" is a more highly regarded label than "bi" or "gay" and therein lieth the problem. On an equal playing field who would give a fuck?

It makes me laugh to think of the reverse really. A guy who fingers and licks out a woman's pussy, but is repelled at the idae of kissing her and so, insists that because he can kiss men, he must still be gay!

no matter what you call it - it's homosexual activity.

No, it does not necessarily mean a man is gay if he jerks off with another man. First of all, .......bisexuals exist, too!! So, maybe he's bisexual, or at least bi-curious. Second, a totally str8 dude could be with other dudes watching porn, and they might jack off together watching porn....doesn't mean they're into each other.

Oh give me a break - there is so much homophobia in the world it's just crazy. Men have cocks, men jack off, sometimes men jack off together - getting off is fun. Note to the world..... there is more to being gay than jacking off even if you're with another man. Not sure why I'd be called gay if my friend and I were watching porn, both took our cocks out and jacked off for fun together.... besides, WHO cares?

My limits with another male are just mutual wanking; no sucking; no anal and probably not any kissing unless he is very young and wants it.

not gay unless you are masturbating with a horny gay guy who can't control himself and starts touching you