Hey, so I came very close once before but unfortunate circumstances stopped me the first time and if I'm honest I kinda chickened out the second time (sorry dude, you know who you are).

But I've been thinking about giving a hand job for ages now and would really like to try especially now I am single again.

I don't want to sound like an asshole but I am nervous, and could do without guys who want me to go from curious to full sex after a five minute chat. Would be nice to chill with someone, have a beer, relax a bit, then think about getting naked watching some porn and working up the courage to stop stroking our own and stroke each other. Sucking sounds hot too.

Maybe I'm being picky, but that's my profile, that's the deal and that's my dick.

30, living in Manchester, from London. I'd be willing to do a bit of travelling for a chilled out fellow curious guy.

Anyways, say hi sometime (and although I like kinky, if you are into the more violent/abusive/rape porn out there, we probably aren't going to get on, just saving us both some time)
thanks,
James

Good luck with your search. I was in a similar position, almost got together with a guy, but we both chickened out in the end. I'd still love to try it out, but I'm really nervous of the whole thing, too. Thinking about jacking another cock, and maybe sucking it, makes me quite excited, though.

Again, good luck!

When you find a guy just start by jacking off yourselves while watching porn...once you both get hard and you get turned on, it will be much easier to reach over and stroke him.

Can sympathise with you. The anxiety doesn't always lessen with experience either. Try it with someone you trust/have developed a friendship with and go from there. Obviously its very sexually charged in the act but not uncommon to feel pangs of guilt afterwards. These are all natural responses, so try not to get too hung up about it!

Dropped u a pm oral , let's chat

some good advice, thanks

Good luck OralObsessive, it is expected to be nervous. I had a gay friend when I lived in Atlanta and we started talking about jacking off. It started with him asking if I ever jacked off to any of our mutual women friends. I said yes a couple of them and asked who he jacked off to and he said I was one of them. I said thanks nice to be someone's material for jacking off. This lead to us sitting on his couch jacking off and he reached over and started jacking me off and the feel of his hand on my cock was electric. I placed my hand on his cock and began jerking him off and we both came jerking each other off. It was incredible and we did it other times as well.

I didnt experience a lot of nervousness because it just happened it wasn't something we planned where I had time to think about it and be nervous. So maybe it can happen that way for you where it is spontaneous.

Good luck!

Good luck, there's no rush. Feel much the same way as you and in a way have no idea how to take the next step!
Happy jacking on cam sometimes, maybe you should try that?

i like the idea of slowly stepping into it too

Yes, this works well.

I'm up for handjob and blowjob in Sheffield if anyone fancies? It would be my first..

I like men and women but I seldom try to hook up with women because they want to sit and chat, hang out, etc. I want sex. That's why I enjoy hooking up with guys. That is less "BS time" and more sex. Also less of a chance there will be an emotional connection as I have no romantic attraction to men.

Yesterday I met and older guy at his apartment. I sucked him off then he fingered my ass while I jerked off. I was back at work before my lunch hour was over.

Wish I were near you (not even on the same continent.) I would be glad to move slowly as you seem to want to. I did have one experience with another guy many yeasr ago as teenagers. We were both part of a group of guys that got together and hung out during the summer away from school.

After hanging out and talking about many things, including girls, the conversation naturally turned to sex. We all bragged about the sexual exploitations that we never really had, only in our minds. One thing led to another and someone produced some smut magazines that we passed around.

Again following in natural progression, that led to guys dropping their pants and jacking off in front of each other. This particular friend was standing close to m as I stroked and after we were done he asked if we could get together the next day.

He came to my house, we went up to my room and I immediately pulled out a stash of Penthouse and Playboy magazinse which belonged to my older brothers. I not only dropped my drawers, I got completely naked and started stroking. He followed suit and soon we were both naked and stroking.

Suddenly he stopped and asked if he could touch my cock. I let him and instead of just touching, he started rubbing and soon he was jacking me off with one hand and jacking himself with his other hand. I came just after he did.

The next day we got together again only this time after getting naked he immediately reached for my hard cock and started stroking. It felt really good having someone else do that and I came fairly quickly again.

Next day was the same thing, and so was the next. After about the fifth or sixth day we did this, he had my cock in his hand and asked if he could suck it. Of course I said yes and he quickly got down on his knees and put my cock in his mouth. He sucked me to orgasm and it felt really good.

After I came I decided it was time for me to touch him, which I had not done up to this point. I took his cock in my hand and started slowly stroking. He moaned as I jacked his cock and soon came, shooting onto both of us.

We got together several more times that summer, but never after that and that also marked tha last time I had any naked sexual contact with another guy.

Really curious now and wish I had sucked his cock so that I would know what it was like. Really want to jackoff another guy and even try sucking sometime. I do enjoy a finger in my ass while I jackoff, so maybe even some anal sometime!