Ladies how do you feel about your husband or boyfriend masturbating?

I would welcome it at this time in my life. When I was a younger girl-I hate to admit it made me jealous in a stupid (but apparently common) way. Now though, I think my man jackin is hot hot hot!

me and my boyfriend often masturbate for each other it is just an addition to the sex scene and i love it

My husband does often and I'm cool with it. He works some hideous hours sometimes and has a very stressful job. I'm afraid if he didn't, he'd explode. Definitely don't want him exploding that way!

I'm definitely OK with it. We sometimes masturbate together.

Men have a strong sex drive and their genitals are prominent. When men are horny it must be almost impossible for them to keep their hands off of it.

I'm jealous now. My hubby seems to never masturbate at all and never in front of me.

Lily - but does your husband take good care of you when he's not masturbating? That's more important, isn't it?

I think its cool my b/f told me about this site I didn't think that people shared all these thing I think masturbation is very normal for guys and girls its fun and harmless

Me and my wife masterbate in front of each other all the time, we watch porn a lot. I could never have married someone who would'nt like to have sex and masterbate.

Linda - You got that right - there is no stopping me

Sometimes a guy friend of mine teases me saying he's going to have to jerk off in front of me if I don't do it for him and of course I say well ok, if I have to! lol He's a nice guy though and cute too so shoot, I don't mind doing it for him when we can sneak off somewhere to do it. I'm a sucker when it comes to seeing a nice looking dick squirt, it's so gosh darned sexy, omg!

To directly answer your question on my wife's behalf, she doesn't really have a choice. My sex drive is too high, much higher than hers. I think the quality of sex goes up when you throttle it down to 3-5 times a week instead of 7+ as I'd love to do. Masturbating makes it easier for me to go a day or two without getting off. (When my wife is not around, I generally wank 2x a day, but sometimes go up to 7x a day) The only condition is that I have to hide my porn. She knows that I have many gigs of porn, she just doesn't want to be reminded.

We had our first mutual masturbation session last night (after 8 years together). My wife definitely loved it.

We normally have a very active sex life, but I'm recovering from significant surgery on my upper torso and have Dr's orders to minimize the use of my arms, including sex. (hence the many JC posts in the last week)

After asking for many months, I finally convinced her to use her vibrator in front of me.

I brought her flowers a few days this week, cooked dinner for her, and got a nice bottle of wine for a good Friday night. I cleaned the bedroom, lit some candles, and we lied in bed, side by side, masturbating. We started out with gentle foreplay and lots of kissing. She then rubbed her clit with her vibrator while I ran one hand all over her and one hand on my cock. I throttled myself by using my left hand and being very gentle. I wanted to touch her even more, but she said it was hurting her concentration. She also asked me to stop staring at her tits so intensely. She's a bit shy about masturbating in front of me, so she asked to do it under the covers. I loved watching the bulge of her hand going up and down as she rubbed the vibrator over her clit. I could hear that she was was soaking wet inside by the sounds of her pussy lips opening and closing with the stroke.

After many minutes needed to get "into the zone", she eventually had a violent orgasm, watching me stroking while looking at her. Her body convulsed and she gripped my arm hard for what seemed like a few minutes. I kissed her and groped her tits as she came. I let her enjoy the afterglow for a few seconds before I switched to my right hand and finished off. She started kissing me and rubbing against me and I couldn't help but explode after seeing her beautiful body (it never gets old for me). She was clearly horny from seeing me so overwhelmed by looking at her.

We stayed up late talking, cuddling, and really feeling in love with each other. I may have even irritated my stitches slightly, but it was worth it.

So to get back to your question:
My wife doesn't mind me masturbating without her and on occasion, she loves it when I masturbate for her, intensely lusting after her while I stroke. I think our recent reintroduction of masturbation into our sexual repertoire will be very good for our sex life and even a boost to our marriage.

How many of you girls have ever wanted to watch another guy jack your husband or boyfriend off? Or maybe have another guy suck his cock while you watched or helped!

Seems like a good time to inject a couple of responses. First, on behalf of my wife & a few ex-GF's - we love masturbating together or just watching the other. Very sexy, & it gets me horny as hell either watching or being watched. Now for the last comment - my last GF had a male bisexual fantasy that she just loved thinking & talking about. She wanted to watch me with another guy - either getting sucked or sucking each other while she watched & masturbated. We would talk about it graphically during sex to help her cum harder & harder. No one I know either before or since has ever admitted it though.

I must admit that the fantasy of a three-some with its many sexual possibilities is one that excites both me and my husband. It is perhaps a logical extension of the enjoyment we experience watching each other masturbate to orgasm.....or giving each other "hand jobs". (Using manual stimulation of the other's genitals while he/she lies back and becomes aroused and ultimately experiences an orgasm.)

But to actually have a third person in our bed is likely to remain a sexual fantasy. We are too discreet and restrained. Although once the bedroom door closes, almost anything goes as far as our sex play with each other.