Do you honestly think she is so ignorant or detached from human sexuality that she has no idea? Also, what do you hope to gain from such a discussion? What would be the point of it?

If you think having that conversation will result in her suddenly wanting sex with you I would rethink that. Its not going to happen. If she hasnt wanted sex for 2 years she doesnt have a drive or desire for some bigger reason. Telling her about your jacking habits isnt going to change that. In order to make any possible progress the reasons for her lack of interest/desire need to be addressed, whatever they are, not your jacking habits.

My thought is that she likely doesnt care about your habit, or really want to hear/know anything about it. Out of sight out of mind.

I think most women know/assume their guys wank! All guys wank. Any one who says otherwise is lying. It's a long time since I felt ashamed about masturbating. Used to feel a bit guilty when I was at school but soon realised that it's fun and immensely enjoyable. As for Techer58, why not invite her to join you, and then cum in her face while she's rubbing her stiff clit? Just a thought.

Don't think your wife gives a toss about you wanking.
If she's ended her participation in your sex life why should she care you masturbate.
I feel sorry for you mate.
Now go out there and get yourself some teen pussy and fuck like a man on a mission.

Rodney Dangerfield summed it up...
"Why get married - just find somebody that hates you and give them half your money...cut out the middle man"

Rodney Dangerfield

I'm not married but if I were I don't think I'd tell my wife I jerked off unless asked directly by her,it would be the same thing if she were to masturbate on her own like a guy,would you want to know?

Hell yes, I'd want to know all the details, and watch too lol..

The thing is, one should never hide the fact they are a sexual being or apologize for being so. Nor should they pretend not to be. If you are married, have a GF, partner etc etc you should be very clear (not threatening) about your desires. My wife knows good and well I will not stop being sexual just because she might. She also knows I dont expect her to stop in the opposite case either. If your mate/partner/spouse doesnt care about your sexual fulfillment you have much bigger issues.

I have been married twice, 1st time for 4 years and 2nd time for 40 years. Both of them were well aware that I jkacked off and included them in mutual masturbation, before we were married. If I was not jerking myself, I might be jilling her or we were laying side by side doing ourselves. One of my 2nd wifes favorite bits of fun, was for her to grab my cock while we were showering and maake me shoot in the shower. Her idea was that making me cum then, I would last longer a little later when she wanted me to last longer in bed.

Well said and spot on!

My wife love knowing that I Jack off. We also are big into mutual masturbating

Damn life sucks for some guys. My wife knows I jack a lot in fact she sends my naked pics of women (she loves curvy Latinas) throughout the day to jack to. Wife knows I watch porn as well and that when basement door is closed its jack-off time lol.

My wife knows.. and we do it together alot. Lol im an edge'r she cums 3 times to my one! Allways on her body or inside

its all right for you young men to say just tell her,but we were born in the 50s and sex education was non existent and wasnt talked about.its a different world now.you have porn on your computer.i had to wank over bra adverts.

Really? How to tell wife you jack? Just do it!! If you can't pleasure youself then you can't pleasure any one else. My wife is a prude and I'm still going to give myself pleasure. I don't care if she approves or not! I bought her the rabbit vibe and she totally loves it . But don't use it. WTF??