I've been married for over 40 years and love my wife dearly but at this point in time I'd just as soon jackoff as have sex. Our sex life was never great but more than adequate. Within the past few years however I've come to enjoy my time alone stroking. I look forward to those days I know she'll be out of the house for an extended length of time or when she leaves town for a few days. I plan my jacking off extensively...getting hotter and hornier waiting for the time I'll be alone to arrive. As soon as I see the car leave the driveway I'm nude...heading to the computer with my cock in my hand. I love to chat online with similar minded guys or any woman for that matter. I edge all day long...stroking and licking up whatever precum I get. I love to be free enough to walk around the house nude..and often get into an old lingerie drawer of hers to try on panties,stockings etc. that she no longer wears. I might video myself in them or take pics and jackoff in them looking in a mirror. If she's gone over night I'll sleep nude and rub my cock or hump a pillow...and wake up rubbing my cock so when I get out of bed I have a nice boner before I head back to the computer. Any other married guys feel this way...and if so what do you do in our time alone?

I'm with you. I like jacking more than sex. My wife seldom wants sex and when she does, she wants it over as quickly as possible. She's like a man, as soon as she cums, she's done.

I like to take my time and enjoy bringing myself to the edge multiple times.

One of the great things about the internet and sites like this one is that you discover how many married men your age get naked and start stroking their cocks the minute the wife leaves the house. I too prefer masturbation to having sex and even when the wife leaves for an hour or two, I have my pants around my ankles and beating off to porn or finding a j/o bud for c2c. Last time she was gone overnight, I spent the entire day naked, looking and porn, masturbating my cock and chatting with other guys doing the same.

I'd love to find a local buddy who was into porn and masturbation so we could jack together, but not that easy to do. Fortunately there's Skype and I have a handful of good online buds my age who, like thickboner4u and I, spent all their alone time stroking their cocks. When our schedules work, we really enjoy sharing our masturbation.

I couldn't agree with u guys more and I'll bet there are lots of guys like us. Oddly I've never had what one would call a great sexual experience with anyone. Since I was 13 my hand has been my favorite lover and reamins that way to this day. my wife would pretty much fuck me anytime but I get hardest on days like this when the house is empty. I get so hard sitting here and hearing stories form other guys like me. I'm so hard right now I can hardly stand it. Masturbation has always been the best form of sex for me.

looks like were all in the same boat.wanking isnt that bad.

i do the same - everytime my wife leaves the house i sit down at my computer and look for something or someone to masturbate too or with. if u want a masturbation buddy i would be happy to join u when ever im free

Yes, the occasional sex with my wife is good but my hands were my first and still my best sex partners. They know exactly what my cock likes and how to provide maximum pleasure. I don't wear any underwear when we are here at home so I have easier access to my cock. Whenever the wife is busy doing other things I'm here at the computer looking at porn with my dick in my hand. I edge, off and on for days without cumming and thoroughly enjoy myself.

you say you love your wife but sounds like you dont LIKE her. it sounds like you want to live Alone. we all like some Aline time but to prefer jerking over sex is technically cause for concern. just saying

You have described me to the tee. I also wait in anticipation for my wife to leave cock in hand as soon as she leaves the driveway. Also,would rather jack now then have sex with wife.

Why is that? Sex is good, but my wife just lays there most of the time. She isn't into it, especially after she cums and is staring at the clock telling me to "go ahead and cum". I can rub specific areas when I masturbate as well as play with my ass and balls. My wife does none of that. I can take my time and enjoy it versus having someone telling me to "hurry up".

I've had a GF in the past who loved sex and wanted it all the time. She and I would fuck for hours and she'd tease me and not let me cum. It was awesome.

My wife has a wonderful pussy and big titties and is sexy as hell, but sex with her is boring. If I try to spice it up she tells me, "I don't like porno sex!". She wants me to enter her on top, we do it for about 2 minutes and if she doesn't think she's gonna cum she'll get on top and ride me till she cums. On some occasions she will cum two or three times. She won't let me eat her pussy and she refuses to suck my cock. She doesn't do any foreplay and her idea of getting me ready is to take her clothes off and lay in the bed so I can rub her tits and clit to get her wet. She never touches me.

She used to be better, now she just doesn't have any sex drive thanks mostly to some medication she takes. So yeah, I'd rather jerk off.

i'm 50 and married, and i agree with you guys, wife and i have not had sex in 9 yrs,, and i think its been the best 9 yrs of sex i have had in my life. i love to see her car drive away so i can come to my "masturbation room" and chat and cam with other jerkoffs. about 5 yrs ago i relised that i wanted to be a jerkoff and that i don't need to have pussy any more,,, hope you guys understand.

Hi, A bit chubby but losing weight. I don't know how to post in the room, but this is Tom, 40 curious and wanting to do faceless online stroking. GF knows cam and I cannot show face. I use Skype. [email protected] = email and Skype.

I'm the same. Can't remember the last time the girlfriend and I had sex but do remember our sex was more of a chore for me than pleasure. As soon as she is out of the house I'm naked and wanking to porn on the computer.

Guess I, for the most part, rather jackoff as well.. I do still love the feel of the wife's pussy wrapped around my cock and how great it feels to fill her full of cum, but i do jackoff many times between the fucking. I also look forward to the times she is gone for an extended period of time because i head for the computer and hook up the cam and look for some jackin/edgin buds to cam with. It is has just gotten where it is much easier to jack than it is to fuck. And almost as much fun...

Have to say I totally agree with you on this.

Time to our selves and time to chat and Jo.

Just great.

Regards

David