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309 posts since 2006-02-17
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I love blow jobs, but my wife will not let me cum in her mouth. However I can wear a condom and cum. To me there is nothing hotter than to cum while my wife's mouth is wrapped around my dick.

Yet why in all the videos when you see guys getting hot blow jobs, just before they cum they pull the woman away and jack off? What a waste. Do they not like a woman to bring them to orgasm, or is it just for show to see the cum spurt?
Does anyone in real life pull the woman off your dick and jack off? If so, WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU?

I do like jacking off with my wife, but would never pass up a blow job cum for my hand.
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It's porn. What's done in porn is for show, not necessarily for the pleasure of those performing. Take for instance some of the positions they get themselves into. Yikes.
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It's primarily to make sure that the cumshots come off good on camera. I do agree with you though that it's more realistic if the guy gets jerked off/sucked off to orgasm.

On a side note, my girlfriend doesn't like cum near her mouth either. I don't take offense to it and honestly it doesn't bother me.
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358 posts since 2006-04-18
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Looks painful some of the positions. Its not very sexy to see a bloke humping an pumping away, all the faces we pull. So to show that they do cum, its usually that way...
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611 posts since 2007-03-16
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I like to pull out and cum on a woman's face. I love seeing my cream on her face and then licking it off. My ex-gf was really into that and sometimes I'd kiss her after licking her face clean so we could share the cum.
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136 posts since 2005-08-22
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For what it's worth, the sexiest shots in porn for me are the ones where, in an M/F scene, the guy orgasms specifically because of the woman is doing to him, whether it's oral or something else. In particular, I love paizuri (titfucking) scenes where the woman brings the guy off.

As Anna so rightly mentioned, though, in porn, the important thing for the director is to get the shot--which is also why I've seen the occasional prosthetic used, in addition to the obvious use of editing. I wouldn't be able to swear to it, not being on set at the time, but there seem to be quite a few cumshots shot before the action and then pasted in at the end of the scene. The big clue for me is the fact that after an Olympic quality of athletic positions ("and...dis-MOUNT!"wink suddenly the participants aren't sweaty anymore, despite having glistened during the scene to the point where one or both (or all, in group scenes) seemed in danger of sliding off the bed (or other surface as applicable).

As to the initial question, there are times when my mate's jaw simply wears out before she can bring me off. The solution we developed involves lots of hand-play, titfucking, and rubbing my cock between her butt cheeks before she starts with the oral fun.

Addressing the complaint that brought about the original question, some women don't like the taste of cum. I'm lucky enough that that's not a worry for me, though part of that is that I eat quite a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water, soda, and juice. You might want to experiment with your diet to vary the flavor of your spooge (though, do NOT try asparagus. Seriously), limiting your intake of red meat, which I've heard can add an unappealing flavor to some men's ejaculate. You might want to ask your wife why she doesn't like having you go off in her mouth...and ask her how she does like it. Quite a few women with whom I've spent quality time like having their partner cum on them more than in them, including my wife. Talk it out, and who knows? You might get your wish, even if it's only occasionally. The rest of the time, make sure she gets her wish as often as possible.
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539 posts since 2005-08-23
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My girlfriend LOVES oral and is damn good at it. She can deep-throat me (ok, not so hard to do with six inches) with absolutely NO gag reflex! Brrrrrr!!!

When she's at her most excited, tho, she'll be bobbing her head up and down on my cock, many times with me either pulling at a handful of her hair or holding her head steady while I fuck her mouth, and SHE'll have an orgasm. When she comes, her whole body convulses so that she changes ever so slightly what she's doing to my cock and I lose MY orgasm. It used to be frustrating as hell but I realized that that little change keeps me going a little while longer. If I'm afraid I'll NEVER come, I may pull away and finish off with my hand. And she gobbles up every drop.

Due to a recent injury of mine, we've experimented with her doing handjobs and discovered a talent she didn't know she possesed. Before, she could never concentrate long enough to bring me off with her hand but, lately, with plenty of lube and consistent pressure, she's made me freakin' explode in her mouth. I still can't figure how she makes me cum harder than I can myself.

As for the porn movies, it's called the "money shot" for a reason. The viewer needs to see the proof in the pudding. The guys that can pop on cue consistently sell the most porn and work the most.

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309 posts since 2006-02-17
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I wasn't real clear in my original post. I didn't mean professional porn videos, but the ones you see on youporn etc, that are supposed to be amateur like husband and wife or girlfriend, etc. making movies. They pull out and jack off also.
I was just wondering how many people really do that if their woman is willing to let them cum in their mouth
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624 posts since 2005-12-07
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My wife won't let me cum in her mouth so I don't know the answer to your question. But I'm guessing that people who make amateur porn want to emulate the professional stuff and realise that it's far hornier to see a guy shooting his load outside his partner than it is to see him cum inside her.
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56 posts since 2007-04-21
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I like cumming in my gf mouth but its great to cum on her face and tits as well. It looks so good especially if theres plenty of it.
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TigerLilly Amateur Jackinchatter

178 posts since 2006-07-31
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Naked,

The amatures are trying to emulate the "pros". So if the "pros" pull out and shoot their cum on their partner so do the amatures.

Sorry you GF doesn't like to have you cum in her mouth, that's something I enjoy very much with my husband. But on the other hand I'd be very upset if he tried to cum all over my face. Just doesn't do a thing for me but make me say YUK!
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11 posts since 2007-08-27
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i love to suck dick
and love to swallow
why waste it after u work hard to make it
love to suck faster just beorfoe u cum
get u all hot
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16 posts since 2007-08-22
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In porn you will always see the man cum, he never cums in a mouth or any of the possible holes. It's the "money shot".
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I've actually seen alot of vids where the guy does cum in the gals mouth, then she opens it up and shows it off.

My wife doesn't like me to cum in her mouth, she pulls her mouth off my dick and jacks me off right when I'm about to shoot. Sometimes I'll jerk off on her if I'm standing up.
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36 posts since 2007-06-17
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i would never pass on the opportunity to fill my wifes mouth with a big load
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